...traveling there just to meet her might be considered stalker like behavior. I don't think that will help "bond" with her...
Any tips/experiences meeting one of your favorites from Boston while she is touring a different city?
Or just travels to a different city?
Does it make you two "bond" better and deeper in the future ? Curious!
All hotel rooms look the same but the dinner date will add an element of excitement and novelty!!
Those are great ideas too; some of the ladies are more open or available to such proposals than others; worth considering!
...traveling there just to meet her might be considered stalker like behavior. I don't think that will help "bond" with her...
It would have been discussed and of courses "ok'ed" by her, with a confirmed meeting in that city; I am not referring to randomly showing up and then let her know
My point didn't have anything to do with discussing it with her beforehand versus randomly showing up and then letting her know.
My point was that simply going to another city for no other reason than to meet a provider would be considered stalker like behavior by some. Especially considering that you currently live in the same city as her... Not sure how doing that will strengthen your "bond".
She might ok it because at the end of the day an envelope is an envelope, but in the long run... Anyway, you do you.
Thanks for all advices, suggestions and points of view.
For listening to other's advices doesn't mean acting on them.
These ladies are wonderful people and the experience of meeting with one of them would be fascinating in a different city/country for that matter and such is a topic that I have talked with them in the past.
And I believe they are comfortable enough with me to have extended special invitations for me in the past to help them co-create some unique experiences.
All points well taken and greatly appreciated. Your intents to make sure I am safe and not to be perceived in a weird way is admirable.
Thank you!
I know him. He's a regular client and universally adored by our girls. He also travels a lot for work. I agree that it would be creepy to just show up in a different city to meet an ATF. (Hopefully she would have rigorous enough screening to weed out people like that). But anybody with that much money wouldn't have the time, and those with the time wouldn't have the money. In this situation, YBenL travels a lot for business. If the word of like half our regular rotation of girls is any indicator, then a provider would be delighted to see him in whichever city they're both in.
YBenL, Chelsea sends you kisses and asked me to pass them on. I pointed out that I'm a guy and not a particularly attractive one, so she'll have to wait to give them personally.
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Thanks and Chelsea is so special and worth cancelling/postponing flights for if circumstances allowed
The only bond between you and a provider is the benjamins. Real life is quite separate
Or just travels to a different city?
Does it make you two "bond" better and deeper in the future ? Curious!
is to give her some space and let her go do her thing on her tour. If you really want to try to bond, book her for a trip together where you can spend a lot of time together instead of just hooking up in a room in a different city.
When a beautiful lady looks into your eyes and asks "when can I see you again?"; while we were trying to say goodbye for good 5 minutes and planning the next date, I got the message that we mutually would be interested in meeting again soon.
Unless you have started meeting her without a cash transaction involved, in this world "when can I see you again?" usually means "when am I getting paid again?".
You've more than likely made a connection with this lady (as well as other ladies), however, it appears you are starting to blur the lines between what constitutes a hobby connection and real life connection. That's a very slippery slope for all parties involved.
This is my last post on the topic. Good luck.
None of us knows your situation better than you do. If you think it's a good idea and she says yes then go for it. But remember this is pay for play and no matter how great you think everything is, the likelihood of this crossing over into something more is very small. Boundaries my man, boundaries.
One of my Mass sweeties met me in NYC for a lovely time including dinner out. I found it exciting to have him there and appreciated the effort he made to travel there for me.
My advice is to let the lady know what you have in mind in advance, and it extra special for her with dinner out and maybe doing something that is unique to that city like an art museum or one of the other attractions there. Of course she has to say yes first. 
Steph xoxo