I think that perhaps +95% of the non-providers who frequent this site are middle aged men (+30-70 yo).
There are tens of millions of single middle aged women who may not having a lot of luck with relationships. They may not want a relationship. They may be single with a busy career and family. they may be married and disillusioned. They also have some pretty significant sexual needs to fulfill. If all the middle aged guy are here . . . What are all the sexually frustrated middle aged women, who are not looking for a relationship, doing to get their needs met? 1. Hitachi Wand (or other ...)2. ???
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I'm also under the impression that each women has very different needs. In example I have friends average age 35 who are, smart, successful , good looking, and they will pretty much fuck at any given time. They would probably be great providers. I also have friends who have mentally demanding careers and children, my BF told me she could care less about sex, or orgasms at the moment when she has to tend to her toddlers needs first. At the end of a long day she's not feeling sexual and would rather have sleep instead. Those women are the ones married to hobbiest.
Some women just aren't very sexual and don't care. When I'm busy with 100 things all the time getting laid is the last thing I'm thinking about.
Women also expieriance way more body and hormonal change then men. I believe during meta pause a women not only produces less vaginal fluid, but the skin of vulva becomes thinner (less collagen ) probably making it a bit more painful. Medications, depression all have different affects too.
Really any women could get laid if she wanted to. What's the saying I learned long ago, " if a women walk into a bar and says who wants to have sex with me there will be at least one taker. If a man walks into a bar and says who wants to have sex with me he'll probably get a tomatoe tossed at his head." Basically I believe women could easily get laid if they want to. Orgasms are easy and I probably could of masturbated twice no problem writing this response. If I'm with someone I enjoy my time but if I'm not or have a 'dry' spell I'm like yeah vag on vacation, no dirty hands and finger nails scratching me......
I travel on planes a lot and talk to women and you'd be surprised how many women say there's a local boy in the neighborhood that keeps all the women in the neighborhood happy . Young to middle-age women wives . It's only a secret to the husbands they never know the never even thought cording to the women I talk to on planes . And for you guys that are reading this that was one of those boys you know who I'm talking about, You could testify here to be in one of those boys and how much you enjoyed it . Women don't seem to have to go looking for it just seems to come to them at least the women I talk to you I'm sure there are some women who didn't get a chance to hook up with the young stud a neighborhood that might be looking for an old fart to fuck . You never know but those are just the women I talk to on the plane . I was just cool .