think the inescapable truth here is the lady has a publicly stated price of $2500 but for you it's $3500.
The why behind that decision doesn't really matter. There are plenty of other deals to be struck at the $2500 price
Let me start by saying that despite all of the talk on this board how cheap ass some of us (hobbyists) are .... to short a provider, negotiate, beat an offer against others; I have not done so and never felt comfortable. Call me a low volume hobbyist but I believe if a lady post her fees, market demand and supply will eventually influence her business and the cash flow or client volume she would like to set herself.
On the other hand, why would some providers request more money than the ones already posted on her personal website (not P411 or TER ... These figures might be outdated)? Example.... A lady I have met in the past which I really liked (and she knows that - she realizes I have preference for example, an ecclectic looking, maybe South Pacific Islander or semi-oriental) asked her for an overnight stay. If posted amount is 2.5k (12 hours plus, including sleep) why would she think she is entitled for 3.5k ? It seems that we are a bunch of misers trying to lower the price and if we dare to question why paying extra, then dirty laundry gets aired on TER forums! I ended up declining offer very politely without even inquiring about price discrepancy or trying to "negotiate" I really didn't have time for all that.
Is it monetary expectations because you sense a client likes you too much, an entitlement because you provide the elite experience not fond on BP (which I never use), or is it greed? Note that I did not place "greed" on top of the list but I am sure others might think otherwise.
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Maybe, she raised her rates and didn't update her website yet.
Maybe, you should have politely brought up the discrepancy.
Maybe, she would have honored the advertised rate for you.
Maybe not.
You'll never know, but it probably would have taken less time to ask her then it did to write this post.
On the other hand, why would some providers request more money than the ones already posted on her personal website (not P411 or TER ... These figures might be outdated)? Example.... A lady I have met in the past which I really liked (and she knows that - she realizes I have preference for example, an ecclectic looking, maybe South Pacific Islander or semi-oriental) asked her for an overnight stay. If posted amount is 2.5k (12 hours plus, including sleep) why would she think she is entitled for 3.5k ? It seems that we are a bunch of misers trying to lower the price and if we dare to question why paying extra, then dirty laundry gets aired on TER forums! I ended up declining offer very politely without even inquiring about price discrepancy or trying to "negotiate" I really didn't have time for all that.
Is it monetary expectations because you sense a client likes you too much, an entitlement because you provide the elite experience not fond on BP (which I never use), or is it greed? Note that I did not place "greed" on top of the list but I am sure others might think otherwise.
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If there's a difference in posted rates, ask. Asking about a difference isn't the same as asking for a lower rate. Its possible she mis-quoted or even typo'd her own rates when she told you 3.5K.
For those who suggested that I should have asked let me mention that before I received her reply, I had already sent an email saying listen I will compensate you according to your website posted rates. Not the same exact quote but same idea (TER admin once gave me 1 week forum-suspension because I was not supposed to copy and paste from emails)
Hope this clarifies it.
with alot of demands on her time? That you expect a certain high level of preformance late into the night? Maybe you want greek, specific outfits, are a fan of fetish and fantasy play? Maybe hotel rooms or the one you want are super high that night. Those are a few things I can think of.
If none of those fit you then ask and if you don't want to ask specify to her that you are willing to do the overnight for the 2.5k quoted on her site and if she values you as a guest she will honor her web quoted gifting. If she has a reason, you can listen and determine how you want to go from there.
GL
Thanks for your reply. Answer is none of the above.
I don't ask for not do I enjoy Greek.
I don't get high nor do I get drunk.
No fetish or role play.
I am a one shot person, only 2 when booking overnight
You are right. I decided to be too of a polite gentleman and not inquiring further.
If none of those fit you then ask and if you don't want to ask specify to her that you are willing to do the overnight for the 2.5k quoted on her site and if she values you as a guest she will honor her web quoted gifting. If she has a reason, you can listen and determine how you want to go from there.
GL
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Personally, I have felt it necessary to raise my rates. Why? Because I feel that I'm worth it and have paid my dues. Now, while I still love my regulars, they still have to pay the same as well. Maybe your girl is feeling the same way I am...
I'm sorry for your unfortunate predicament but we all gotta live, right? Please don't let this bring you down. You will find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated soon, I'm sure.
XXX-Giselle Parker
On the other hand, why would some providers request more money than the ones already posted on her personal website (not P411 or TER ... These figures might be outdated)? Example.... A lady I have met in the past which I really liked (and she knows that - she realizes I have preference for example, an ecclectic looking, maybe South Pacific Islander or semi-oriental) asked her for an overnight stay. If posted amount is 2.5k (12 hours plus, including sleep) why would she think she is entitled for 3.5k ? It seems that we are a bunch of misers trying to lower the price and if we dare to question why paying extra, then dirty laundry gets aired on TER forums! I ended up declining offer very politely without even inquiring about price discrepancy or trying to "negotiate" I really didn't have time for all that.
Is it monetary expectations because you sense a client likes you too much, an entitlement because you provide the elite experience not fond on BP (which I never use), or is it greed? Note that I did not place "greed" on top of the list but I am sure others might think otherwise.
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think the inescapable truth here is the lady has a publicly stated price of $2500 but for you it's $3500.
The why behind that decision doesn't really matter. There are plenty of other deals to be struck at the $2500 price