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how do you TOFTT?
Dumar77 38 Reviews 2477 reads
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How do you do that?

 I see Reviewers saying that they saw a new ad and decided to TOFTT and try out the Provider.  How do you vet someone that is brand new? My fear is always that a ‘NEWBIE" is a sting waiting to happen. You can't read reviews and you can't go off of word-of-mouth because they are "NEW". So how do you safely TOFTT?  

I suspect that there is no way for you to do your homework when you TOFTT and you are just HOPING that it isn't Uncle Leo waiting for you behind the door.  

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Ask the girl to come to you or go on a dinner date first. Don't go to them until you can do enough research on them. Also look to see if they have independent website. After you tried her out and like her, you can write a great review on her. This will help her and other hobbyist (if the session was great!!).  

LEO is not going to set up a website ad (not absolute). They will put a classified ad to catch an hobbyist. LEO most likely is not going to pay a web designer thousands of dollar for a high class ad. They want to put a cheap ad because their game is to bust johns looking for a cheap thrill.  
 
I never seen a case where undercover cop set up a sting to catch a hobbyist in an outcall appointment. LEO wants you to go incall to bust you because they have backup to protect the undercover decoy.  They may be able catch you if the escort turn on you or the cops waiting outside the hotel room.  

 

Posted By: Verdit
How do you do that?  
   
  I see Reviewers saying that they saw a new ad and decided to TOFTT and try out the Provider.  How do you vet someone that is brand new? My fear is always that a ‘NEWBIE" is a sting waiting to happen. You can't read reviews and you can't go off of word-of-mouth because they are "NEW". So how do you safely TOFTT?  
   
 I suspect that there is no way for you to do your homework when you TOFTT and you are just HOPING that it isn't Uncle Leo waiting for you behind the door.  

Outcall has a different set of risks if you are going to TOFTT.  For example, you could get robbed.  I have read reviews like that on this website.  Those were always TOFTT experiences.

Always

ALWAYS  fear of mine.

Posted By: maxwell44
Outcall has a different set of risks if you are going to TOFTT.  For example, you could get robbed.  I have read reviews like that on this website.  Those were always TOFTT experiences.

I totally agree. If she is new....she should understand wanting to be smart about this. She'd want to get her name out there, so she should be more accomodating to her first...GOOD clients. Don't forget...if she is new..she is probably not adept at screening and this is when she is most at risk as well. I'm sure we've all heard stories.  

So, meeting for a drink or grabbing a bite shouldn't be an issue. We all have to eat. If she says no...her reason better be because she has a ton of clients already lined up...of course..that could be her line...but then its easy to say....NEXT..and move on to someone else.

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