Surem P4P in the city requires that one travel much shorter distances than in the suburbs, maybe 10 miles maximum, versus 30 or more. But those ten miles can take longer to travel. High population density means greater choice in a smaller area, but it also means more congestion and slower travel.
zigI just did another search on SA for SBs in my home town only, with no other restrictive search paramaters, and received a meager total of just 86 profiles. Of those, many are not in the age range or body types I prefer, and many others are not active currently. Slim pickings indeed. That's why I am usually searching for playmates at least 50 miles away, often further, where there's more to choose from, such as a big university town. I take it for granted that when I have a date with a SB my round trip driving will be at least 100miles, often more. How about you guys?
to see the object of my affection, and often twice or three times that.
I'm a traveling man, yes I am.
(Doing the best I can, etc., etc.)
-- Modified on 9/10/2016 1:25:11 PM
My P4P options locally are just as meager as the SBs. When I travel by air longer distances for other reasons I still enjoy P4P. It's not easy to find a genuine SB who agrees to get busy with you on the very first date, so escorts are still the most reliable source when travelling.
Until only a few months ago I rarely traveled more than 10 miles to see a girl, but now that I live a good two hour drive from the nearest big city (Dallas) I have been forced to expand my net. It's also the reason I got on SA to begin with, as the small city I now live in has virtually ZERO hookers. Actually a P 411 search in my small city comes up with ZERO matches on P 411.
So now, even the lazy fucker that I am, the guy used to having a hundred hookers within a five minute drive, I am finding myself driving a hundred miles to get laid. Not all the time, and I won't do this for a "short visit" but I often find myself driving that far for dates lately. I do try to combine business with pleasure though and it's rare that I drive two hundred miles round trip "just" to get laid.
and yes, we have a word for SB's who will agree in advance to "get busy" with you on the first date, we call them "hookers" lol but I LIKE hookers, so I am ok with it.
I'll always try an watch a game in the area also. Baseball, football, basketball or hockey
I search within 50 miles but prefer 25 miles. The County in which I am easily stretch 50 miles to the south and the east of me, so 25 is somewhat restrictive. To the north of me there's another very bountiful county but the SBs there are way too materialistic and sometimes unreasonable with their demands because of a few extremely wealthy enclaves in that other county. Ironically, the hookers in that other county have better pricing structure than the ones where i am because of HX (their local site) and a very active BP there. Go figure! (shrugs).
When I was more excited about this game a few years ago, my net stretch 100 miles to LA county and I actually hooked up with 2 SBs there but TBH the initial drive took the wind out of my sail. We have another county northeast of us and there are lots of lower income white people in that county as it is more inland and less affluent as the communities by the Ocean. Lots of younger single moms there who seek quick hookups but for a bit too redneckish for my tastes. Believe it or not, I do enjoy a bit of an intelligent conversation so a 9th grade education (let's be honest our 12th graders donct even pass 8th grade in most other 1st world countries!) doesn't do it for me beyond a once and done occurrence.
This being Boston, anything further west than 128, south of B or North of B is not worth my effort - with rare exceptions of course...
Surem P4P in the city requires that one travel much shorter distances than in the suburbs, maybe 10 miles maximum, versus 30 or more. But those ten miles can take longer to travel. High population density means greater choice in a smaller area, but it also means more congestion and slower travel.
zig