First, to all the idiots who want to judge and legislate everyone’s private lives: You may be lucky enough to be in a stable, loving relationship.  (Maybe 20% of the population).  You may be good looking, confident and successful. Bully for you. How about the rest of us? Maybe we are borderline ugly, shy, nervous and stutter. (Me)  Maybe we are married to a bloated wife on her 9th antidepressant, and staying together for the kids.  Maybe we are introverted non-communicators who find it difficult to form lasting relationships. Maybe we are overweight and unemployed, and instantly get turned down every time we approach a woman. So we seek what is naturally human in the best way we can, and find a society 1000 years behind the times.  

What a bunch of misguided do-gooders we have in government, what the hell is their thought process? They are trying to reverse the incoming ocean tide with a teacup, destroying a few unlucky innocents in the process. I hate it hate it when some poor guy, whose last intention is to do anyone harm, ends up with his picture online and his life ruined. He is about as guilty as a dog who chases a tennis ball.

A close relationship, whatever form it takes, is a natural part of life. Many of us have lost all options of human intimacy; occasional, fleeting dalliances are all we have left. I would give all providers a public service award, for providing us men providers respite from the typical cruelty of this world. How many marriages have you saved? How many kids homes have you preserved? How many sad lives have you dazzled, if only for a few hours? God bless you all, somewhere within you there is common sense and a real understanding of what it means to give. You are a precious light to the legions of us who lead little lives