We honor her request, correct? I just saw my second Provider. She is great. I found her outside of TER (I know, don't lecture me, it was a big risk but it worked out.) I wish she had TER reviews (she doesn't trust TER) and I wish I could review her as I think it would let others know about a really fine Provider. I told her I would honor her wishes.
Follow her wishes - and just a bit of addendum, if you have a session with a lady who say no bbbj but ends up allowing cim, keep that between you and her.
Trust plays a big part in the hobby - some info should be kept between provider and client.
Honor her desire. There are lots of reasons why a doesn't want to be reviewed and work UTR (under the radar).
No matter wher you found her, it sounds like you've found a lady with whom you click, always a good thing! I've always found that maintainig a friendly relationship with providers always pays dividends.
You will get differeent addvise from different people.
My take is that if it is a positive experience (as yours clearly was) I will honor her wishes as to whether to do a review or not.
A truely bad experience will get a review whether she wants it or not.
What about providers who claim on their sites of through correspondence that they have no reviews at all because they're against them? How do you verify those before rolling the dice?
It may be possible to verify her via backchannel means with other hobbyists, but if you're smart, you DON'T roll the dice - there is simply no reason to do so. There are lots of well-reviewed fish in the sea, so move on and find one you can trust.
If a provider came across as anticipated and promised, then I'd honor her request to stay unreviewed. But if she did something that other folks should be warned about, I'd post a review.