One of the reasons I started hobbying was that my (now ex-) wife's sex drive dropped precipitously, and then she had the gall to be offended by my masturbating, whining that it showed I didn't need her. Then when we did have sex, she made me spend endless minutes watching her use a toy. I guess I have enough self-knowledge to know that in the face of such an attempt to control my sexuality, I went looking elsewhere.

I found more and better outlets. No regrets.