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In the past i've had a tendency to pounce but now....
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....i'm more to start slow and go with the flow. It depends on what he wants which I usually figure out before we even meet.

Are you cool calm and collected when you meet with your play friends? Do you have your mojo on and a smile? We all carry ourselves a bit differently. Some of us are confident, go with the flow types. Some need to be the aggressor or it seems to throw us off track. Some like to be the quagmire type....yes I've met the real life guy that represents him as a hobby dude and it was very peculiar.  Some are clingy and some aloof, some are very into your personal space and you think wow you really are very close aren't you?  
I enjoy a variety of different approaches, except for the really socially awkward lives in Mom's basement at 40 types. So does your approach adjust to your partner's vibe? Or do you just go all in? I'm just curious to hear from both the guys and the gals.  

 
Grace

Most if the time the girl simply asks what I want and that fills the hour no problem.

There are some things I like to do more than others but have plenty of alternate activities if a girl says no or gets tired or simply needs air.  I always ask what positions she prefers and do my best to satisfy her requests.  

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most of the time for me. I guess I look at it as I'm paying for your time but you are the pro. I take a little more initiative In the 1st couple meetings but once we get to know each other I prefer the lady to take the wheel a little more. I'm not shy and if I would like something in particular I may ask for it, but I always do my homework and pretty much know the menu so I know pretty much what I can ask for. I also enjoy seeing a lady get off almost as much as getting off myself so if there is something that works better for her I will try my best to return the pleasure favor!!!! I'm not delusional and understand that it maybe tough to get some ladies off but that's where being a pro comes in and I get the appearance of success anyways. I'm confident enough in my abilities that if we have even a small connection that both of us will have fun at least and let's face it I'm a guy getting off really isn't much trouble for me;). That's my 2 cents for what it's worth.

It's always about the lady.  I try to read the opening kiss before the shower.  Does she grope you right away?  Grab the package?  Is the hug tight and bumpy?  Love those bumpy hugs.  Ladies needs to be comfortable or it just won't work.  Once a comfort level is established I'll take charge.  

J

I'll have you know I have my own room on the second floor. Very private. Mom can't climb stairs anymore!

You are the best Duncan! You continually crack me up!  
Keep Mom downstairs okay?

Grace

Recently I saw one of my atf's whom I've known for years. He knows to just  come on in and proceed to the love den. I hid behind the bedroom door and then jumped out and said BOO lol but but naturally not everyone will appreciate my goofy personality. So I guess more often than not I'm a go with the flow gal.  

Posted By: GraceShepherd
Are you cool calm and collected when you meet with your play friends? Do you have your mojo on and a smile? We all carry ourselves a bit differently. Some of us are confident, go with the flow types. Some need to be the aggressor or it seems to throw us off track. Some like to be the quagmire type....yes I've met the real life guy that represents him as a hobby dude and it was very peculiar.  Some are clingy and some aloof, some are very into your personal space and you think wow you really are very close aren't you?  
 I enjoy a variety of different approaches, except for the really socially awkward lives in Mom's basement at 40 types. So does your approach adjust to your partner's vibe? Or do you just go all in? I'm just curious to hear from both the guys and the gals.  
   
   
 Grace

If I did not think I would smile I would not have set it up.

Different providers bring out different aspects of my personality, so I guess I do try to go with the flow.

Oh come on mom just a few more minutes down here!!!

....i'm more to start slow and go with the flow. It depends on what he wants which I usually figure out before we even meet.

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