White listing

I've heard stories about some guys sharing TER accounts, and even selling them. Plus unlike P411 or Date Check, there's no actual personal information associated with it. So my opinion on white listing is that it's nice if they have it, but not enough by itself for me to feel comfortable seeing someone.

It would definitely raise a red flag for me if somebody said they didn't want me to check a reference that had supposedly white listed them. I've even had girls contact me to double check ok's on P411.

But it might be better suited for the PO (Providers Only) Board if you have access or if not then the Newbie Board. I would also suggest you PM some of the more experienced providers that post here regularly. My experience has been that most are very knowledgeable, friendly and helpful especially when you treat them with respect. Good luck.

We feel your pain...unfortunately

It seems like some think that Whitelisting is comparable to a verification site approval. It is not because of the reasons stated by others. We too seem to hear from a lot of people who rely on the whitelisting. We still like to get a reference from the recent whitelisters to make sure we know who we are meeting. You can also get the client to email you and check the email and the TER handle are the same profile (if you are a paying VIP). This is one way to get around someone using a friend's TER handle

There are literally dozens of accounts here that contact every new girl with paper thin references that they have either bought, shared, or falsified, and are trying to catch the low hanging fruit to devour, often in unpleasant ways. Of course they fold easily and try to blame you for their sudden lack of dishonest disinterest as a last ditch effort, but thankfully avoiding them is as simple as saying no, deleting the email and moving on. This is the internet after all, so the scams here are usually just as basic as trying to sell/buy a TV.

I have lists of accounts I have seen sold, if you're interested.  

I don't really do much whitelisting as I'm not often asked, but I'd think seeing someone once (in the full capacity of this lifestyle - I've had people ask to get whitelisted after M&G conversations ridiculously enough) is enough to whitelist. Hopefully whichever ladies see it will contact you for more info, at which point you can note that you only saw the gentleman once.  

To answer your question, to me a whitelist is just an organized list of girls I could choose to contact for a reference. If I see one of My friends on the list (awesome!) I contact them preferentially over other references for obvious reasons.  

~Mme X~