If you could sum up qualities/traits or etiquette that you like to see a provider do? Even small things that you feel like make a difference to your feeling relaxed and having a great time?
Thanks in advance!xoElizabeth
Well every provider is so different, and she can't pretend to be someone else. She shouldn't try to provide services she's not comfortable with but it's certainly okay if she's willing to experiment with something new for her. So be scrupously clean, and be eager; even if I'm #9 that day make me feel like I'm the only one. The setting should be neat and clean too. She should work on herm conversational skills if they don't come naturally because the best girls make me feel like I'm comfortable with a friend.
I'm one of the most easy guys to please, so it's the simple things that I look for.
A girl that is pleasant, attentive, and eager to please, a non-smoker, and having a clean room. Also turn the phone and Television off. If I want someone to watch TV with, I can visit friends or go to a sports bar. Time and attention is all I ask for.
Each client you meet us gonna be different, but what seems to stand out is a provider's attention to detail and how well she makes the date feel like there's a real connection. That "is forgot it was a service" is not just dumb luck, it's a talent.
Contrary to popular belief, I do think it starts with the initial contact from your client. Definitely there's not anecessarily expectation to evaluate the client like one of those questionnaires you will out when you're about to get a professional massage. What you want is to get an impression of the personality of your client. Understanding "who" your client is will pay dividends later because not only will you assure you're in tune with how you please your client but you'll find ways to assure the compatibility factor is felt. Sometimes especially with higher volume providers, it's easy to feel like I'm just another date to her. The ability to personalize your client's experience will have him asking to extend the visit or ask you about your availability to see him again.
Oh and have a good time yourself. Some men like to know that you're having a nice time, so don't be afraid to get turned on and tell him what you like when you get those queues from him that he's enjoying the date. There's nothing hotter than a woman that can let herself get lost in the moment.
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One way you can attract quality clients from various walks of life is by broadening yourself and your interests. The escorts I find myself admiring the most are those who can fit into multiple situations. For example, someone who is intelligent, well-spoken, interested in a variety of topics and enjoys getting made up and dressed to the nines is someone I'd want to bring to an industry event or something similar. On the other hand, I so enjoy my personal time with smart, cute women who wear light makeup and look great in a soft cotton t-shirt and pair of jeans. Some S-workers like to specialize in whatever area of the business reflects their personality best, and you can be successful at that and enjoy it. Some like to be the spoiled princess, some like to be the domme, some like to be the girl down the street who builds a treehouse with you so you can have a place to make out.
A lot of this is a kind of performance or presentation, but the performance really isn't in bed, it's how you appear and feel to the client the rest of the time that makes them want to come back again and again. And it also helps you relate to, and connect with, a wider range of clients, which makes your time with them more enjoyable.
I don't disagree except that a big part of the performance IS in bed. Honestly I've pretty much personally liked all the women I've been with for who they are and how they present themselves. It's perfectly okay that every one is different. Those I've been disappointed with have not liked the sexual part very much or -- more frequently -- were just girls I found it more difficult to be with in the sack. Awkwardness I guess, or just an incompatibility despite obvious willingness on both our parts. Or maybe just a bad day. I've had them and I'm sure the girls have too. FWIW.
A lot of this is a kind of performance or presentation, but the performance really isn't in bed, it's how you appear and feel to the client the rest of the time that makes them want to come back again and again. And it also helps you relate to, and connect with, a wider range of clients, which makes your time with them more enjoyable.
I enjoyed reading your responses.