Washington DC
NoVA, I've seen your taste in ladies and you have high standards in looks and physique. Nothing wrong with that, I can relate, believe me. 
But let me tell you why YMMV in particular with the ladies I picked (aside from the fact I couldn't tell you how they'd do in mish or BBBJ etc. and the usual stuff you boys do).
Why I like these ladies (of the things I think they won't mind me revealing):
- CJ and NetM. Because they are almost polar opposites in what they offered and satisfy two different aspects of me. CJ is very sweet, beautiful eyes, and never had a woman before in the hobby. I wanted to be her first. 
Being first for a lady in something is always a nice feeling. NetM has a rep for wild and outrageous, plus she had the right equipment! I do love a woman who knows how to use a strap-on. Also, I considered slipry's preferences into the mix of selecting both ladies...something he'd like but would stretch his boundaries beyond his usual SI picks.
- Karrie, because she is lovely and maybe the biggest flirt I've met. She definitely knows how to make a girl feel good. Also, she is coming to DC and insists on meeting me and who am I to say no?
- Kimi Lixx because she got me incredibly heated up on Wed night's cam show. She's beautiful (maybe up to your standards NoVA), very bright, and looks like she's barely out of college. Interesting backstory...she's 35 and a 5 time mom, but you would never guess it by looking at her body. Also, so very sweet on the phone. I adored her.
- Kyndal because she is adorable with her and her cousin Sindy...they are a laugh riot. We both love to shop and will do that, go to lunch and sooo much more when I'm in LA.
- My first girl because the moment I saw her, I fell for her. She's the reason I'm here. She's more lovely than the Ms. Florida I had a fling with and I personally think she's about the most gorgeous woman on the planet. But honestly, it'd mean nothing except she so down-to-earth, one of the sweetest most caring girls I've ever met, talented with the drive and ambition to be successful, and more intelligent than she gives herself credit.
Definitely! We do not want to mess that up.. Looking forward to rocking your world slipry!
-- Modified on 3/12/2005 5:28:04 PM
NoVA, I am too new to the hobby to give advice. But I will do my best to give you my perspective.
First, I do know what you mean...I've only found one female hobbyist in NYC whom I chat with, so we are out there. Perhaps lurking in the shadows...who knows? I do think it's rare for the obvious reason: women can find other women in a liberal city like DC through the normal channels. I myself, just prior to meeting my lovely first lady, was dating a law school student (while sleeping with this delightful married woman). I had an amazing experience with my first and since then, I've been lured into further experiences. Thus far, I've only met my first girl. I have two appointments with CJ and NetMichelle later this month, which I will report back on. Karrie in LA coming in April wants to meet me...and I may meet her and Lex up for dinner beforehand. That is if Lex ever gets the clue.
Kyndal (modeled in Playboy) in LA wants to see me my first trip out there. I will be seeing Kimi Lixx (retired porn star) in OH on my layover to/from LA. I'll also be seeing my first girl again when she is back.
If you look at all these ladies, they are all different. I'm no different than you guys in appreciating diversity. I've spoken to them on the phone...IMd with some, and I've clicked with all of them. Without exception, they are intelligent, sweet, down-to-earth individuals. I've liked them all and that's important to me in being attracted to a woman. They are also most definitely bi and very enthusiastic about meeting up. Also, I liked how they seemed to be attracted to me in turn, really by my personality. They wanted to meet me before they even saw my photograph (although, that never seemed to hurt--just ask CJ).
I do have my physical preferences...but I've been attracted to and been with many different women. I would say, paramount, I need to feel a mutual attraction. I need a woman I can converse with and enjoy their company. Generally, I like sweet, down-to-earth women with a wild streak and definite enthusiasm. I love how so many women in this business have those qualities. I think that's why I'm here even though I could go elsewhere to meet women. I also really like the idea of being with women who are not jealous, not possessive and not into drama. Drama is a byword in the lesbian community and I will be very happy to do without that.
NoVA, I've seen your taste in ladies and you have high standards in looks and physique. Nothing wrong with that, I can relate, believe me. But let me tell you why YMMV in particular with the ladies I picked (aside from the fact I couldn't tell you how they'd do in mish or BBBJ etc. and the usual stuff you boys do).
Why I like these ladies (of the things I think they won't mind me revealing):
- CJ and NetM. Because they are almost polar opposites in what they offered and satisfy two different aspects of me. CJ is very sweet, beautiful eyes, and never had a woman before in the hobby. I wanted to be her first. Being first for a lady in something is always a nice feeling. NetM has a rep for wild and outrageous, plus she had the right equipment! I do love a woman who knows how to use a strap-on. Also, I considered slipry's preferences into the mix of selecting both ladies...something he'd like but would stretch his boundaries beyond his usual SI picks.
- Karrie, because she is lovely and maybe the biggest flirt I've met. She definitely knows how to make a girl feel good. Also, she is coming to DC and insists on meeting me and who am I to say no?
- Kimi Lixx because she got me incredibly heated up on Wed night's cam show. She's beautiful (maybe up to your standards NoVA), very bright, and looks like she's barely out of college. Interesting backstory...she's 35 and a 5 time mom, but you would never guess it by looking at her body. Also, so very sweet on the phone. I adored her.
- Kyndal because she is adorable with her and her cousin Sindy...they are a laugh riot. We both love to shop and will do that, go to lunch and sooo much more when I'm in LA.
- My first girl because the moment I saw her, I fell for her. She's the reason I'm here. She's more lovely than the Ms. Florida I had a fling with and I personally think she's about the most gorgeous woman on the planet. But honestly, it'd mean nothing except she so down-to-earth, one of the sweetest most caring girls I've ever met, talented with the drive and ambition to be successful, and more intelligent than she gives herself credit.
Apology accepted, it's all good now.
I have to draw the line with y'all somewhere. In case you are wondering, I did not make the deal with slipry because of financial reasons--far from it. I like the idea of the adventure, I like and trust slipry, and I let him pay for it because that was part of the deal. It's kind of nice having someone pay for me for a change for something...when I date women I am like you guys, always covering the bill for dinner etc. I don't mind it, I can afford it, but still it feels good to be spoiled. Especially around your bday.
But I think you already married the perfect woman. She's bi and open, what more could you ask for in life, you lucky guy.
I won't say I've done my share of remedial training session with married young ladies, although generally without the knowledge of their husbands. Hm, yes, I've been bad.
Send slipry your PM and maybe we can chat.
Edited to add: Have you considered taking your SO out to meet one of the ladies here? I can give you a good list of very enthusiastic bi-friendly providers. In a couple weeks, I'll be able to give you reviews on two.
-- Modified on 3/13/2005 10:00:40 AM
Keeping the boys happy, I see. Makes me look forward even more to our fun lil session on Sunday!
Glad you had fun, NoVA, and found a girl whose personality is a true GFE.
Thanks, Girl. CJ is something else!