In my opinion, mentioning toys falls into the category of "explicit conversation" which is a big no-no in my book.  So I'd prefer you just bring it without telling me beforehand.  

It does depend on exactly what it is and what material it's made of (some don't agree with me) but usually I'm happy to give a new toy a whirl!  

If it's not brand-new then I'll put a cover on it.  If it is new, then I'll just wash it off with my toy-cleaner prior to using it.  Make sure you have batteries or that it is already fully charged, whatever the case may be.  

 
Oh.... and if it belongs to your SO and she doesn't know you borrowed it: do NOT tell me that!  Seriously, a few guys have done this and it made me very uncomfortable.  

If you want to bring something specific for me to use on you, by all means please bring it.  If you're wanting to bring a toy to use on me, though? I'd ask beforehand, for one reason alone.  

I probably have the toy you want to bring, or something similar to it,  and would be far more comfortable using my own than using someone else's.

I'm happy to use something someone else brings, and if it's not new in the box, I'll just  wash it and throw a condom over whatever it happens to be. No biggie.  

I wouldn't take the opinions of a few of us here as a blanket statement for all providers, though... Sometimes you can ascertain what's okay conversation-wise based on a provider's specialties, reviews, or website.

I had a client attempt to use a toy on me that he admitted to using on porn stars and providers tons of times and he was pretty determined in trying to touch me with it and disappointed when I said no way. It not only ruined our time but he really didn't get why it wasn't appropriate. I was out of there. If you are going to bring a toy, it really should be brand new. But if your the kind of person who is ok with an unknown object being used on your body then this may not apply to you.  

As long as its brand new and unopened then yes, please bring toys. toys are fun I always bring a wide selection of toys with me as well.

especially if there are more then just 1.  New toys preferred, they all get washed and covered before use sealed or not just so nothing cray is introduced to you or me.  If the toys are for you that ia also nice too know since some play is headed in a more PSE type direction and no longer parley's in the GFE realm.  

Honestly, I have refused some who said nothing and just brought a random dildo in their briefcase.  It was strange and the not making sure it was ok made sure it was no longer ok.

Just make sure you mention it or ask after screening is complete and don't get graphic unless you all are already discussing truely "going" there.

Now you all have me worked up wanting to grab a toy for my pleasure...  Yu

If you are not able to bring a toy sealed in a box... I am happy to take it to the sink, wash it with antibacterial soap, slap a condom (or a rubber glove if the condom is too small ) on that baby and we are ready to go!  

This is a good topic though, I haven't really seen it discussed and I don't think everyone is really aware of proper etiquette on that. Most ladies should know that you can do that, but the gents probably don't think of it.

Bring a new toy as a gift! If she doesn't want to use it, oh well. Now you know. The lady most likely will, if it is not something very odd...lol. If you really fancy a particular toy, get it new. We like vibrating things! Don't discuss it with me beforehand as that falls under the no go category.

I do not want to use someone else's toy. I realize that your "toy" is probably someone else's, but I am fine with that

Toy etiquette

So funny, I was just talking with a close friend about sex toys and clients. Thinking that less clients are interested in sex toys than those who are interested. It's hard to imagine anyone who doesn't love sex toys!  

In response to your question I'll say this--more communication is always better. Not over-communication, mind you. But relaying important facts is great to know before meeting up. Like that you're bringing a sex toy--especially depending on what kind of toy it is.  

Just seeing a new toy and using it straight away can be potentially quite interesting--maybe not. Depends on the toy. Don't do it if you haven't played with that toy. Ultimately, the goal is you both have an amazing time. So if you have expectations about using a sex toy, let your provider know. Also let them know your skill level with that toy.  

#Justsayin.  
@_ElizabethDean (shamelessly promoting because I *just* got on Twitter, apologies)