Wow. You sound like my kind of lady. I can't fi d any ads or pics though. Your profile has no links.
I have a question, and am looking for a related provider. It probably seems like a stupid question, but I hope you'll 'read' me out.
I am not interested in ropes and chains BDSM, I am more interested in what people call rough sex. My question is, what does that mean usually? Second question, is there a provider who would be willing to teach me how to be in a situation where the woman is 'submissive'?
I have seen rough sex porn, but obviously porn is not real life. My last girlfriend and I broke up---a variety of reasons, but one reason was that she liked it rough. I know that she does not like BDSM. But, she likes "being taken". I don't know what that means, and she wasn't willing to explain. All I know is the lubby-dubby type of sex. She was very experienced generally. I am less experienced in civie sex (a few LTRs, not a pick-up artist type of guy).
I want to learn how to do "taking"---as a male "taking" a female, whatever that means. Women I know seem unwilling to explain. I figure a provider may be more understanding and helpful.
There's a gal in Chicago named Bebedoll who excels at that. Not my cup of tea, but whatever.
I would suggest you post this on the BDSM Board as that is where you are more likely to get responses from people into this.
Just remember to have a safe word or hand signal when playing. The emphasis is on "fantasy"
Is that what it necessarily entails? Throwing someone against a wall and calling them "bitch" or whatever is probably not my cup of tea. But a lot of cvvie women apparently like it?
I would suggest you post this on the BDSM Board as that is where you are more likely to get responses from people into this.
Just remember to have a safe word or hand signal when playing. The emphasis is on "fantasy".
The reference being intentional.
I have a very long term (30+ years) regular who wanted me to physically abuse her, which I told her in no uncertain terms is not my thing, but she kept insisting so I agreed to slap her across the face while we engaged in some very aggressive sex including anal. She was then able to have an orgasm that way, and was very appreciative. She had had a very disturbing upbringing, and I'll let it go at that. She found the slapping to be a great emotional release, a catharsis, if you will.
After about a year or two of this (We would see each other about once a month.) she seemed to have enough of this and finally requested that our sex be more vanilla, which was fine with me. I began to feel rather uneasy, mostly because I was beginning to become inured to the violence and didn't like the implications for myself.
Such is the complicated interactions this hobby can bring about.
A dynamic where the illusion of non-consent is at play isn't on the top of the list of experiences I like to explore. It's a soft limit that I might be open to engaging in with someone I've played with before who has experience in that arena. However, I'm all about verbal humiliation and being called all kinds of slutty names as well as receiving physical pain by way of spankings, clamps, and the like.
The important thing to remember is that BDSM is not abuse. Abuse does exist in BDSM spaces just as it does in vanilla hobby contexts as well as various other subcultures. This is a reflection of society at large. With that said, respecting other people's desires is important, and this is where not yucking others' yum comes into play. If one doesn't want to dominate a woman and engage in rough play with her, that is absolutely fine. But if that is what she is into, it does not mean that she needs to be pathologized for articulating what type of sex she wants.
I love engaging in D/s play and I'm very open about my kinky interests. But I would never compel someone to dominate me. Whenever BDSM has come into play for me on a date, it was as a result of mutual desire. 
Consensual non consent. .. This is where the woman gives permission or consent ahead of time time to be taken or raped. A safe word is required for safety and I wouldn't do this with someone I've never met but I LOVE it with someone I know. I made a post about it on the bdsm board because this is one of my favorites. I didn't know how to approach telling a guy I wanted him to take me 
This is so much fun!!
XOXO,
TL
I'd be happy to help you out.
I'm an experienced kinkster.
Check out my website and let me know if you'd like to meet
Kisses,
Katrina
If you want to learn, I would be more than willing to teach that how to. You do have to be a bit agressive. I'm assuming you want to learn for her. I'm assuming you want her, so take her! Whenever, Wherever and However you chose. In a parking lot, after dinner, bend her over car and just take her dont ask. Or push her against a wall face to, press your body hard against her so she can feel your hard cock as you grope her tits and pussy, her wetness and breathing will day it all, and tell her what you are going to do to her. Everyone has different triggers but you will know from her breathing patterns. If she wears skirts its easy to take her anytime, anywhere. She wants a guy in charge. Be spontaneous. Think of all the places you would like to fuck her and do it. If you want her mouth, take it if you want pussy take it if you want her ass take it. Don't ask, just do it. And take it like you mean it. Hopefully you can talk a good game too. After you take and use her hard, she will be satisfied and exhausted then you can have your lovey dovey caressing time. I can go on and on with ideas for you on different ways to take her, feel free to email me and would be happy to give you advice from a submissive perspective free of charge.
Crystal
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Wow. You sound like my kind of lady. I can't fi d any ads or pics though. Your profile has no links.
My profile does have 2 email addresses listed on it. Not everyone advertises, some of us have a life outside ter and are happy with regular friends and meeting an occasional new one, if they spark my interest. As for a website, I dont need reviews. So there is no need for a website. I think i answered your questions have a nice day