well said ! Abe Lincoln approach. when angry write it in a letter and wait 24 hours before you send it.. same for the review but maybe tell her of your disappointment and see if she is willing to right the wrong. Human beings have bad days and you may have caught her on one.. something sent you back and perhaps the memory was better than the true experience. I had a very underwhelming experience recently and the gal has great reviews. 1 pop in a 60 min. session no dfk lots of chatter. no cbj or bbbj and she used lube before she started. nice looking very friendly and in a classy hotel and well built but just wasn't a great time, not a bad time but not a great time. on the other hand I saw Sabrina Secks a week ago and she was awesome. If this other one reaches out to see me again I'd probably politely tell her why I'd pass but I dont want to be malicious by writing a bad review.. either her other reviews were lies or I caught a bad day or she didnt like me but I'd wait and see before I did something regreatable (i.e. negative review)
.... during a date ? A provider I have seen before was such a dud , ....I'll just leave it at that for now , but really want to rant about such a total waste of my time, effort , money and patience for someone I have seen before , once , and has , I guess good/great reviews . It has really opened my eyes to ask my self , what the fuck am I doing and why am I doing this ? Leaving me to wonder if I will ever do this again . I'm pretty sure I have a 'go to ' girl in the mix who I would be happy to see again . But , after last evening , my opinion is she should get out of this business and I should , too . Do I review her ? Tell everyone how much she/it sucked ? I should have asked her to leave a 1/2 hour into a two hour visit . I would've given her money just to get the fuck out of my place . I have to admit , I was furious at myself and her for the (un)whole thing . I was a gentleman the whole time so don't get your panties in a bunch over how pissed I am/was .
Next time I am in your area I will give you a twofer to make you smile again how's that? See there's always a rainbow after the rain dahlin xo Erin
Everyone has an off day now and then. Maybe email her and gently discuss the differences from your earlier visit.
The hobby can be great fun, but like most roads there maybe unforeseen speed bumps.
If the issues were such that others should be warned then pm's or a review might be in order.
And then ask yourself again if you want to write the review. If the answer is yes, write it objectively explaining the reason for your disappointment.
You are done with her, obviously and - perhaps - the feeling is mutual. That's OK.
Take a break from the hobby for a few weeks. Spend the money doing other things.
Breast of luck!
no ,and , let's not guess
If a provider sucks you should right a review. Don't be a jerk about it but state the facts. That's why we are all here. This is a business for these girls .. They don't do this because there horny lol and where not here to fall in love . Better luck next time
Yes, You should write a review on your experience and do tell everyone what happened, but don't get too worked up over it.
I have also been cheated a number of times, but chalked that up to experience. I'm sure that you have had wonderful experiences like I've had, and you'll have many more to come.
I have on occasion been a victim of disappointment, unhappiness or anger and reacted too swiftly. If you are inclined to write a review do so. BUT. Don't hit "send". Let the review sit 24-48 hours at least, then go back and re-read it. In the meantime ask yourself if you were a victim of your own expectations, did I contribute to the disaster and just give yourself an opportunity to relax and think.
After a that you can feel assured that you made an effort nformed r atonal decision and not a knee jerk blunder. Just MHO a result of my experiences. Good luck!
Practicing restraint of tongue, pen, and email while examining my part in the situation usually saves me from acting out of emotion....
Sometimes you should think of that SEND button as being bright red and saying WARNING instead. A couple of years ago I blew up one relationship with a provider when I was mad after a disappointing date (dinner and night out, my first and last) and had a couple of glasses of wine in me. Of course that time I meant to blow it up although it got uglier than I intended. I learned some valuable lessons though. Recently I may have inadvertently contributed to my demise with a provider who I had seen quite a bit and really liked. I didn't, and still don't, think my email was that bad but she may have thought differently. All I know for sure is that shortly after I sent it she wrote me that she couldn't see me anymore. I know she was busy with other things in her life and was probably stressed out but maybe she's the one who shouldn't have pressed SEND...
This is still unfinished business but if she's willing to forgive me I'm willing to forgive her.
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Give the girl a chance to make it right, many girls will. I waited 6 months for one girl and she did make it up to me.
Then again I've waited over a year for another and she seems to have vanished from hobbyland. Oh well. I did have a number of good sessions with her previously.
Luck is always a factor.
well said ! Abe Lincoln approach. when angry write it in a letter and wait 24 hours before you send it.. same for the review but maybe tell her of your disappointment and see if she is willing to right the wrong. Human beings have bad days and you may have caught her on one.. something sent you back and perhaps the memory was better than the true experience. I had a very underwhelming experience recently and the gal has great reviews. 1 pop in a 60 min. session no dfk lots of chatter. no cbj or bbbj and she used lube before she started. nice looking very friendly and in a classy hotel and well built but just wasn't a great time, not a bad time but not a great time. on the other hand I saw Sabrina Secks a week ago and she was awesome. If this other one reaches out to see me again I'd probably politely tell her why I'd pass but I dont want to be malicious by writing a bad review.. either her other reviews were lies or I caught a bad day or she didnt like me but I'd wait and see before I did something regreatable (i.e. negative review)
Hi. Proceed and write the review. In the general details area mention you have seen her before and that date (supposedly?) was ok.
This happens to all (ok, most) of us at one time of anothwe. Sorry it happened to you.
D.