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There are so many "jack-shack" ads it is hard to find the independents...Any Suggestions? Seems like the ads have women taking selfies with mostly clothes on and usually white paneling in the background. Also usually says something like "Incalls only" and "no Texting"

As a suggestion, Independent Ladies, try to distinguish yourself from these ads and you will get more business that way!

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I don't advertise on the site you speak of, but I am on E. Maybe it's just a different type of experience that's targeted by both sites, but I think your odds of having a great overall experience are going to be better there.

Yes, I am independent but I am not advertising on bp.
Maybe this is the best site for you to visit hun.  But maybe I can help you out.  ;)

I've met some great long term clients from BP. I have a saying there is always an attorney three miles away looking for an afternoon  getaway. In return for that one perfect client is so much head ache that I'm assuming most women just don't want to out up with anymore . If you had any slight idea to the slew of emails to sort through that say ridiculous things like, " u real?" Or another fav, " discrete professional, not like the other guys here, "  "57, fit look 33." Oh Lordy.... Nobody wants to give any kind of verification and getting a name is not easy, so personally I just don't want to deal with it and I'd rather see gents from this site and a few others who have played the hobby game. Another personal problem I have with BP, is the people want RIGHT NOW! Creepy IMO.
If I was a guy the first thing I would do is google a phone number and image search photos, but honestly there's so many ladies on TER and those who tour you can't go wrong.

Good Luck OP!

... You have to fight the crowds to find the one good deal you are seeking.  When looking for providers, you have to sift through thousands of "square feet" of ads, weeding out the fakes, and lack-shacks, and checking phone numbers one-by-one with TER to see if the ad is legit, and once in a while you get lucky.  The way so many ads are written in ghetto-speak, it's a challenge to find a true provider, that is actually well reviewed, and is the girl in the pictures. It can be done, but plan on several hours of searching and checking.

.... and without fail a few guys still email like  "r u workin?"
Sexy (lol).

Usually have their ter ID in their ad so people know they have reviews :)

many aren't even aware that reviews or TER even exist.

A lot of the guys who frequent BP are thrill-seekers... they don't want the known quantity, they like the risk and rush of finding a new "diamond in the rough".

be sure to do your homework - google ALL the pics and names and numbers. Even the Ad heading can be googled. Know what you are looking for as red flags.  

Set up public outcalls. Cops don't like an uncontrolled environment and you get to see her before you commit - it helps to prevent bait and switch from fake pics. If all is good, bounce from your public meet to another location for sexy time. Doing this will also eliminate the drivers, pimps and baby-daddies that might cause drama or worse at her incall.  

Just realize that from a BP gal without reviews YMMV from really bad to really good.  

I've met some great providers on BP, including some fairly well-known TER gals... but It does take a lot of work and you need to take precautions!

.........is I just skip all ads with 630 area codes.  not very scientific but once you recognize JS ads, it seems to encompass many of them.

randolph

That's a good one! Also I began making a list of "fake" numbers, for example numbers ending with 1902, 7787 in the Chicago page are jack-shops.

If you wish to narrow down your search, simply go to Eros-chicago.com and then click under Authenticated.  They are incredibly thorough in making sure the woman in the picture is the one you will be meeting.

Also, p411 requires a ton of info plus verification picture so I am assuming they turn down those who cannot, but I am not sure like I am with Eros.

Both sites have ways to search for independents and agencies.

Problem solved!

Eros and p411 have changed requirements and many other things that
many retuable ladies are no longer using those sites and many more are going back
to BP. I use BP and I'm verified with p411, date check and rs2k as well as on other sites. BP is just
another way to advertise IM

Oh, I get that totally!  I wasn't responding on whether BP was a good advertising venue or not - he seemed to want to make sure that the provider was who she was in the pics and indy / agency and those the sites I know that verify.  Backpage is a solid advertising choice for ladies - it has the widest net.  

When I was new, I drank the 'bp is a sewer' stuff because I didn't know.  Then I met a provider who was like:  I get great clients from there.  I tried it and met some wonderful people.  I don't advertise consistently, but when I am accepting new clients I always put some ads up there!

And even though it is pooh poohed here so much, we still see questions about backpage ladies and reviews.  Dissing BP is the 'cool thing' sometimes.  Reality: Most everyone checks it.  

 

Posted By: butterfly24
Eros and p411 have changed requirements and many other things that  
 many retuable ladies are no longer using those sites and many more are going back  
 to BP. I use BP and I'm verified with p411, date check and rs2k as well as on other sites. BP is just  
 another way to advertise IMO  
   
 

I loomk on BP because I travel a lot and sometimes the places I travel BP is the only option. Check their Ter and you will be fi
 

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That's a sure fire way to know an agency is posting the ads.  

Also - the longer ads are I believe people who have an account for multiple ppl. Indy providers posting ads I believe only get a short amount of space. I could be wrong, but..

 
Stars, squiggles, 100% real deal, me love you long time blah blah isn't going to be an Indy.  

Find that needle in a haystack that has a sophisticated title, and sophisticated writing without cliches and copy paste phrases.

The Indy is going to be that person who is like quiet waters running deep. Not "I'm so hot, I'm so hot, no pimps, blah blah"

If it sounds ghetto, it probably is.  

Oh. And I do remember when I was pimped when I first started, (so called agency but a scam female driver,) guys would book 15 minutes expecting GFE lol! I still remember a 70 year old Doctor trying to act all upscale booking a 26 year old blonde thang for 60 bucks lol! (they lied about my age too lol)  

Just some things I've noticed.

The length of the ad is dictated by how long the provider has had the ad. Back in the old days, BP allowed almost unlimited characters when posting ads. Things changed a few years ago, and as you've noticed, the character limit is rather short. The providers with old ads were grandfathered in with the old, lengthy character limits. New/relatively new accounts have very short character limits.

I found a licensed CMT that gives you a great massage & standard ending + upgrades.  All for a very reasonable price of admission. Her ad was about as plain Jane as you could make it with no fluff. Just a 2-3 sentences.  I've now seen her several times w/o breaking the bank.

Posted By: dr.no
There are so many "jack-shack" ads it is hard to find the independents...Any Suggestions? Seems like the ads have women taking selfies with mostly clothes on and usually white paneling in the background. Also usually says something like "Incalls only" and "no Texting"  
   
 As a suggestion, Independent Ladies, try to distinguish yourself from these ads and you will get more business that way!
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