Not me.... prefer a woman to finish me with her hand and spray my load wherever she desires...
Why do you gents like a girl to swallow your load? Just curious, cuz you would think after you cum it's hard to get turned on instantly from watching her swallow your cream? Inform me.
Does it make you feel like you're now connected to her?
Does it really not matter it's just looks "cool"?
Fetish perhaps?
Something else?
I will NEVER have this on my menu. I'm seriously just curious
For me, it is a turn on seeing my cum on her face and or in her mouth. Then watching her swallow is a turn on. Plus its kinky if she snowballs me.
why would you want to have your own cum in your mouth, I hate when girls try to kiss you after they swallow
Why do any of us like our particular 'thing'? There are so many different things to like. Do you like the same foods, activities, movies? Same type of thing. Some men LOVE a good prostate massage, while others have an invisible "exit only" tattoo on their ass. Some men love to drink girl cum. Some men have to dodge quickly.
Just makes life interesting. If everyone liked the same exact thing, there'd be one VERY busy provider and that's about it.
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...and the fact that I've already spilled my seed and my erection may be subsiding, I'm still very turned on by my partner performing this very intimate act. It's those emotional engrams that we men often fantasize about when we relive an experience with a lady. A lady can even enhance the sexiness of the act by showing it to us in her mouth before swallowing it, or letting it run out of her mouth and drool down her chin and onto her body. Little acts of love like that can be the little extra sumthun' that makes a guy more likely to come back and see you over seeing someone else.
I’m very fond of oral sex, both giving and receiving, and I have thought about why that is. The purely physical sensations of DATY on an excited woman, after all, could be closely replicated by sticking my face in a pan of lukewarm lasagna. But I still love DATY, especially when the lady communicates she is having fun. There's a real feeling of power and accomplishment when a woman is thrashing about under my ministrations and the thought of throwing a dental dam into the mix leaves me very cold.
I imagine from the standpoint of physical sensation, giving a blow job is not much different from sucking on a (cocktail wienie, hot dog, bratwurst, cucumber - choose your allusion). And I have tasted my own ejaculate and found that, just like a lady's veginal fluids, it's not disgusting or nasty but a good beer is better. Yet several women have told me with apparent sincerity that they love to give head and swallow, and alluded to feelings of power and accomplishment being much of that. And if a woman asks me to come in her mouth, then makes a production of swallowing, oh yeah, it's hugely exciting!
I’ve concluded it is the giving nature of the act that moves me - the actor finding enjoyment from an act that is not intrinsically pleasurable BECAUSE it pleases his or her partner. That’s exciting. Swallowing is always optional. One of the most giving women I know warned me that she just can't be sure she won't start puking when the warm flood arrives in her mouth, so I'm not about to force anyone. But if a woman makes eye contact with me while it's happening, then pulls off and shows me and/or lets me hear it as she swallows, I believe she is taking her pleasure from the act of pleasing me, and I absolutely love it.
I would have to assume you enjoy a man going down on you until you climax . We are in a sense enjoying your "wetness" in much the same way .
Imagine if the man did not enjoy this one specific thing and just as your about to orgasm he pulls away and you either fail to orgasm or its certainly less than what it could have been had he stayed on task and made you wither and scream .
For me I have never CIM with any woman although I really do want to experience it .
For one as we are about to cum our dicks become super sensitive - before ,during and for a few seconds after .
For me it not the fluid and where it ends up . I just want that warm tight mouth to stay on course while she looks me in the eye as I orgasm . It must be an incredible feeling !
It's also a sincere measure of intimacy and unselfish act of pleasing your partner - P4P or civie .
I get completely turned on by pleasing a woman . I keep going until I'm certain she has climaxed and if fluid is involved than so be it - I get off on her complete pleasure !
Just imagine a guy who was FANTASTIC at eating you out ....
But every single time you get close, he pulls away for fear of your natural sexual juices .
I think it would be pretty irritating myself.
For guys it's kinda the same .....you brought us right to the edge and just abruptly stopped for fear of his cum in your mouth . The "dislike" you have is yours not his and his sexual satisfaction is less than it could be .
Pretty good analogy although there are some holes in it ... First off women are not just like men and no two women or men are the same either.
I myself prefer that my partner pull away when I'm climaxing or at least go at it very gently ... It's just too sensitive. Often times they assume we want them to continue on the same course and some of them even get a little more vigorous which is not good.
The difference between the natural juices are twofold ... Typically we do not ejaculate into your throat, it's more of a light trickle. There are some of us women who do squirt but even then it's not from the same area that your mouth would typically be on. The clit and the vagina opening are not one in the same.
I'm not against it in general but it definitely takes the risk factor up when you are ingesting fluids. Would it be almost as good if the guy came on her face and lips while still stimulating the head with her lips and staff with her hand? Just wondering if there is a suitable alternative when dealing with P4P.
1) Bri - you actually taught me the importance of backing away when she hits the high notes. Seems like an importance lesson and key gender difference.
2) I have enjoyed continued pleasure with hands and the mouth still on the sensitive area but without the swallowing. I think that is a pretty good compromise for this.
There is a big difference between ALMOST THERE and actual CLIMAX.
What he was trying to convey is that it's an absolute fucking let down when the mouth leaves the goods seconds before the climax even happens. Most guys know how sensitive a womans bean gets during climax, because it is the same for alot of men.
Actually, that being said. It's almost painful when a provider is still trying to work my knob after the pop. Sensitivity can be a two way street, but back to the original subject - He wasn't talking about pulling away during the sensitive climax, he was talking about pulling away seconds before it even happens.
As far what I have experienced that was top notch, was when the mouth or hand stays on the unit still without movement. The sensation of warmth, grip, and connection is still there without the sensitivity being over stimulated. If that makes sense 
That is the part that is MOST important when pleasing anyone, men or women.
NOTE TO GUYS: when a girl cums, DON'T FUCKING MOVE. When you keep going, it's so irritating; when you pull away immediately, it feels cold and empty. Learn the art of stillness.
Same with gals: whether BBBJ or CBJ, swallow or not, don't move after he cums! It's just disheartening.
My .02
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Understandable, I'm not referring to CIM I'm referring to the swallowing act. My clients see me for me, I spose or my tits lol. But normally are finished via breast or hj or facial. I would hope a provider wouldn't just stop lol.
Imagine if the man did not enjoy this one specific thing and just as your about to orgasm he pulls away and you either fail to orgasm or its certainly less than what it could have been had he stayed on task and made you wither and scream .
For me I have never CIM with any woman although I really do want to experience it .
For one as we are about to cum our dicks become super sensitive - before ,during and for a few seconds after .
For me it not the fluid and where it ends up . I just want that warm tight mouth to stay on course while she looks me in the eye as I orgasm . It must be an incredible feeling !
It's also a sincere measure of intimacy and unselfish act of pleasing your partner - P4P or civie .
I get completely turned on by pleasing a woman . I keep going until I'm certain she has climaxed and if fluid is involved than so be it - I get off on her complete pleasure !
Just imagine a guy who was FANTASTIC at eating you out ....
But every single time you get close, he pulls away for fear of your natural sexual juices .
I think it would be pretty irritating myself.
For guys it's kinda the same .....you brought us right to the edge and just abruptly stopped for fear of his cum in your mouth . The "dislike" you have is yours not his and his sexual satisfaction is less than it could be .
my then GF gave me my first BBBJCIMSWLS, and I thought I'd died. It etched an emotional attachment to her that persists.
Today the swallowing aspect doesn't matter to me. It doesn't make or break the deal. Love it when they let me "linger" in their mouth and play with me gently. What I don't like is when a lady jumps away at the moment of truth, as tho the cops have arrived.
Lmao!! Oh hell no. Not very nice of her haha
I'm not against it, I've dranken loads of my ex lover's cum but to me thats a personal line I won't cross with stranger's. That's why I wonder why guy's like it, what's the big deal if a provider aka stranger drinks your cum. Lady's? Why? I knock noone just curious. Lot's of interesting answers. Still confused on why provider's do it? For scores? Do you really enjoy drinking strangers cum? I'm seriously interested. Not judging
and if a provider will do it, I like it. It is a fantasy that is enjoyable. I think it is a little bit of a power thing.
But the "stranger" comment is an interesting one. If you are a good provider and I want a GF experience (just like you sucking and swallowing your BF's cum) that might include swallowing. I do enjoy at least a CIM and you can do with it what you want after you "catch" it.
My reviews speak for themselves. I offer great gfe, to strangers
Includes CIM at a minimum. If you don't swallow, I won't see you. It's that simple. Not how I always finish but the option needs to be there. If you don't do it your call. But I guarantee you money's getting left on the table.
Rayna and I just aren't a part of them for you. Everyone is different.
There are tons of men who'd rather just be safe, too, and that is more relaxing for everyone.
Every lady has their own reason for swallowing. If you want to understand why I suggest you ask the ladies directly.
For me it's not about the scores (I'm massage only so I can't get higher than a 7 on performance) I do it because it's my choice. I don't think it's an intimate act either, mind blowing sex is intimate.
Most of my clients can't tell if I do or don't swallow, which is funny to me. Some guys do taste good, but most don't.
If you don't swallow, than don't worry about the ladies that do.
jae
but to me thats a personal line I won't cross with stranger's. That's why I wonder why guy's like it, what's the big deal if a provider aka stranger drinks your cum. Lady's? Why? I knock noone just curious. Lot's of interesting answers. Still confused on why provider's do it? For scores? Do you really enjoy drinking strangers cum? I'm seriously interested. Not judging To me the act of swallowing is very erotic and the shows real intimacy between two people it also feels a he'll of lot better than wearing a raincoat. Although on the providers side I certainly understand why they don't offer that on their menu .I once went out with a gal who told me she once felt cheated when she blew me if I didn't fun in her mouth.Most erotic sex ever was 69 and both cuming simultaneous I still dream about caressing her beautiful breasts and gorgeous assets while I carressed her kitty with my tongue as she engulfed Mr happy with such an appetite then both convulsing together plus no fuss running to the bathroom to get rid of the condoms just relaxing in the after glow. It wasn't a power thing it was two people pleasing each other because of a connection we had. Hard to get that with p4p it seems providers don't care to show that kind of intamicey with a client they usually for some reason hold back.The blow job is usually to get the guy hard so you can fuck and move on with life. Anyway makes wonder who the lucky guy is show a with her now.
I don't swallow my client's cum for health matters. Sure some say it's not possible to get a STD from the gent. But truth is you can. And I'm not willing to risk that. My mother is a nurse and filled me in with tons of information when I first started. You can get hepatitis herpes other diseases.
As can you with a partner but when I'm in a relationship we both get tested every 6 months. I get tested every three months being the business I'm in. Of course I understand I could still catch something but I try to limit that situation and have fun as much as possible.
As I said I can certainly understand this subject from a providers situation I just wanted to comment on how special it can be from a guy's perspective and the intimacy it requires and I guess I miss it lol
Totally understandable!!
Many of the everyday foods we consume (especially @ resteraunts) present a greater health hazard than a mans natural semen.
That's how I feel and I'm sticking to it.
I am just happy to come in a woman's mouth. If she wants to spit it out I am fine with that - I wouldn't like to swallow it myself
+1. The biggest deal for me though, as was mentioned earlier in this thread, is taking both mouth and hands off of Mr. BVT just as he's about to convulse. What a mood killer!!! And a sure way to make sure I don't repeat
Not me.... prefer a woman to finish me with her hand and spray my load wherever she desires...
Best way I can think of to put it is that she is "keeping" what I just "gave" her.
I would just like to be able to get to CIM in the first place without a herculean effort. I must have a mental block on that. Maybe an ex really hated it and played some psychotherapy tape while I slept creating a mental block on it for me...lol. I should go see a sex therapist who specializes in CIM and CIMNSNQ without getting desensitized before the finish 
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Aww you poor thing!
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I don't get any extra thrill knowing someone swallowed, it's purely a physical thing. Just 'catching' it in her mouth is not the same as sucking throughout the climax.
If I'm in her mouth but she's passively waiting for me to finish, it's not as enjoyable as if she's actively sucking/licking throughout the orgasm, which pretty much requires her to swallow.
The best is when the sucking/mouth action is timed to the pulse of the climax as it gives additional stimulation which prolongs and intensifies the whole experience. Knowing when to ease off on the intense sucking and shifting to coaxing me down without overstimulating is tough - when a lady can do that, wowza!
I never expect it but when it happens, it's unforgettable.
is a very well-placed condom with the talent to boot.
I enjoy the provider doing CIM, as for the swallowing, not sure. I think for me knowing she swallows my load gives me the false feeling at the time that she enjoys me. I know, it's silly but at the time during that initmacy it sort of adds to the sensuality of the moment for me.
If you have false feelings that she likes you, she doesn't like you.
There are people that really like (dare I say LOVE) their clients... unless their dickheads.
Don't be a dickhead Then you can find someone who likes you... that would mean getting to know you, too.
It just feels good, really really good.
And there seems to be a correlation between top service and swallowing. Ladies who swallows, tends to do everything well before the final act.
I like when women swallow because it's intimate, most definitely, but also dirty. And the visual is really nice too; it just makes a session that much more fantasy-driven and kinked out. I also enjoy kinkier things like snowballing too, cum is just lots of dirty fun!
For me, the second the load is out of me it isn't mine anymore. Do with it what you will. Just keep doing that thing that pulled the load out. Don't stop! Don't stop! Don't stop!
Boy, I could use a sandwich.
... providers not knowing the Common Information Model? Why should a provider know the Common Information Model? How will that improve the experience for her clients?? It's a complicated subject--it takes lots of training and experience to master! And another thing--the Common Information Model is all about how objects relate to each other. I think it's a bad idea for a provider to objectify her clients--how can that help, especially with "GFE" providers?!? And then there's the controlling aspect of the Common Information Model. That seems like hard-core BDSM to me!! Not everyone is into that kind of thing, you know! Plus there's these schemas to keep track of and... what? It's NOT the Common Information Model? Oh. What is it, then?
Oh! Well, that's different! Never mind! :]
I personally would rather see it run down the lens of her glasses and drip down her cheeks. It is good for the skin.
I am coming to this late, been off the forums a bit... I agree with vorlon, there is something intimate about taking something that is from me, and wanting to keep it because it is from me, rather than wanting to get rid of it because it is from me. It is NOT a must have for me. But I have to say, there is a deep pleasure when it is kept in some way--swallowed, rubbed in, whatever. And, it's a turn off when it is treated like some kind of poisonous chemical spill like the yellow cleanup guys in Monster's Inc.