I have to say Mo414 and Johnnycade are dead on. JC especialy so regarding the "power of beginnings" and the FACT THERE IS ALWAYS NEWER, YOUNGER, HOTTER, MORE ENTHUSIASTIC PUSSY EVERYWHERE!  Yup, FACT!

Dude, put on your big boy pants, love your kids, don't wreck your family, reign in your fairy tales, branch out and see as many beauties as you can while sticking to a budget.  The best way to forget someone is to see many others; it's an offense vs. defense thing....  

Good Luck