is to stay with 40+ yr old ladies.  I've been below that age line in the past with mixed experiences. SO far the 40+ bench mark has worked well for me.  But to each their own.

I've met some very immature 50+year old women.  But I know some women in their 20s who I think are very mature.  In fact, two recent dates were with a 28 year old provider and 29 year old provider.  Both are confident, easy to talk with (and able to talk intelligently on a wide range of subjects), experienced (in all the right ways)... and extremely good looking.  

That being said, my preference is for 35+ just because I tend to "connect" better with that age, in general.  My current two favs are 39 and 51; both are very mature and are exceptional at their craft.

what you say may also apply to us on this side of the fence...mine is not as much as maturity, but being able to connect better...maturity is not just assigned to older folk like us...my range is 35-65, but i have fudged on the numbers a few times, depending on how well we connect through our little bit of correspondences...this may be taboo to say here, but hell i am a little unorthodox anyways...i am a mother and grandmother and i connect so much better with clientele that share those similar experiences...changing of the times, politics, travel, etc. etc...and you are right about us not needing direction or redirecting without making a scene...that is experience...the old saying, "age is just a number", i believe is not entirely correct...age is also experiences and those are wonderful to share

I agree with you 100%  BUT  I sure like to play with a young tight body that has not been pregnant or gave birth once in awhile. I met one (26)  a couple weeks ago and just can't wait to see her again. Of course this one is also pretty mature for her age and doesn't quite get whats going on but I'm a willing teacher. I just want to teach, teach, teach.

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Interesting thread. I definitely hobby over 30 for all the reasons you've stated. I did go for an under 30 once, but it turned out she wasn't exactly honest in her ad, being 35 at the time. Nevertheless, the hobby has changed. The one thing you used to be able to count on with the mature ladies was their dependability. The over 30s are becoming less dependable all the time. I've had more no shows in the last year than ever, and many are terrible planners. If I could find someone extremely dependable, I'd be tempted to go under 30 for the first time since I was under 30.  

The other thing about the hobby is the crazies that are drawn to it, both men and women. I've experienced some pretty weird stuff over the years, so one has to be very careful, even with the over 30 ladies. Maturity doesn't factor into nuts.

You are both eloquent and charming as a writer and yes I prefer the grace older men bring.

Maturity means different things at different age and experience levels.  I do know that I am more open and flexible at my age than I was when I was younger.  When it comes to hobbying or just vanilla sex, I am a better lover at an older age than when I was younger...more inhibited then by what was being thought about me, etc.  I let go at this age and just melt into my partner.