She's no where near the ad pictures.  She's black, and big gal.

It won't let me post the link.... it defaults to BP main page.... new to this board.... sorry

http://minneapolis.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/stunning-bengali-indian-lady-_-originally-from-delhi-call-now-1oo-specials/12541175

Are you only looking at BP?

Do you have VIP here?  If you don't, go for it. One month of VIP is way less than one bad meeting.  You can then do some searches for exactly what you are looking for and read the reviews for those gals.

Are you an ass man?  Check out some of the names on the thread a little farther down.

Are you into natural breasts?  Check out the thread a bit farther down from that.

Forget about the BP ads for a while, join P411 and VIP on here and look for a provider with some experience for your first time. The first time can be ackward and having an experienced guide is very helpful, look through the top 100 list and cross check them with P411. I prefer to make first contact through 411s Request a Date.  After you get your feet wet, hopefully not literally, you can freely expand your hobby searches.  Good luck!

Just some tips for newbies that I've picked up through experience and listening to other people:

1.  Check out the newbie board; lots of good info there
2.  Get the VIP membership so you can see the review details and have access to the PM system
3.  Spend some time learning how to use the search functions for both reviews and the discussion board so you can identify ladies you would be interested in seeing based on the criteria that matter most to you (ex: looks, menu, rates, etc.)
4.  Figure out what kind of verification the ladies you would like to see require and how you can meet those requirements.  Some ladies are very particular.  Others are more flexible.  It's OK to contact them about it if you are not sure; just remember to be discreet.  Any  explicit questions will likely get you disconnect or otherwise ignored.
5.  Some ladies advertise here or on other sites that they are newbie friendly; keep an eye out for that.
6.  Consider joining a site such as P411 that pre-screens potential clients.  Some escorts will accept membership in such sites as satisfactory verification.
7.  If you are still puzzled by something after having done research, please feel free to ask questions.  I think for the most part we are willing to help out so long as we think you are not just freeloading on what others have learned.
8.  Develop a bit of a thick skin; some people are going to be jerks regardless.
9.  If an ad or offer looks TGTBT, it's probably TGTBT.
10. If you find yourself in any situation that doesn't feel quite right, trust your instincts and walk away.
11. As a newcomer, stick with well-reviewed ladies.  It's harder when you are inexperienced to figure out who the legit providers are from the fakes and scammers when they don't have reviews.
12.  Google is very useful.  Searching on a phone number or other info from an ad in Google can sometimes save you a lot of grief. Google Image Search is another very useful tool to search for other places where pictures in an ad are being used.
13. To help uncover ads that are using someone else pics Google Image Search and Tineye are useful tools.  Much better to find out ahead of time that the girl you are thinking of calling is using the pics from some porn star or model or that the pics have been used in ads from one side of the country to the other.
14.  Get an anonymous hobby email that is not through your work, school, or anything connected to your real life (yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc.) and use it for all your hobby email activity and for nothing else.  Be sure you include nothing that identifies who you really are when you create it.
15.  Get a prepaid phone that you use for nothing else other than hobby phone calls and pay cash for it and whatever refill minutes you buy.

Re: Damn

Hang in there it is really frustrating at times I call myself a part time hobbyist I don't see near the number of providers that you see some of these posters do. I run into the same issue of finding the ladies I'm interested in and then once you do your going to run into the issue of not having enough recent references that remember you so you won't get past there screening process. Great fun good luck!