ok so ive been part of the board here for several months now and have noticed i now have 4 private messages . unfortunately i dont have a vip membership yet as its just not quite been in my budget to do so, thus, i cant read those messages or even know who they are from. So if some of you regular posters here sent them please know i didnt intentionally just not reply. i would gladly provide my user email if thats allowed but i dont know if it is and dont wish to make a TER faux pas. thanks to whomever for trying to contact me and sorry for not getting back to you before now.