For writing reviews, I generally just do it. Reviews, praising or critical, are something that comes with the territory of being a TER-listed provider. So it's free advertising for her if she deserves it, or a cautionary tale to stay away if she doesn't. The one time I deliberately would not write a review, is when the session was just plain bad, and she or her agent/scheduler set off red flags in my head somehow (rude, mechanical, etc). This never happened, though, and hopefully, never will.
Whitelist referrals, on the other hand, I feel awkward asking for. I find that comparable to asking a civvie: "was it good for you too?" I just realize that not all providers give whitelist referrals or use them for verification, and act accordingly.-- Modified on 5/2/2016 10:10:03 PM
How do providers and guests feel about asking to be reviewed if they've enjoyed their time together? A soft ask, a more direct approach, or not at all?
Thanks!
-Cori
I'm fine with it. Part of the territory.
Especially on a first date. I think that can flip a switch in their mind and make it stressful/analytical, instead of a free for all fun date.
I have a policy nowadays where I ask the guys to please not discuss P411 OK's or Whitelists until at least 24 hours after our date. Back in the day, guys would short me money after I whitelisted them during the date. Made things very awkward. (This was before I required the envelope at the beginning.)
I think it kind of ruins the date - at least for me - depending on the relationship. I just think it's better as a follow up... but again, that's just me.
-- Modified on 4/29/2016 9:20:42 PM
Those are all great ideas. I believe I'll be using these as guidelines for how I proceed. Thanks!
I have a policy nowadays where I ask the guys to please not discuss P411 OK's or Whitelists until at least 24 hours after our date. Back in the day, guys would short me money after I whitelisted them during the date. Made things very awkward. (This was before I required the envelope at the beginning.)
I think it kind of ruins the date - at least for me - depending on the relationship. I just think it's better as a follow up... but again, that's just me.
-- Modified on 4/29/2016 9:20:42 PM
Chances are I am going to review regardless, unless it was such a horrible experience then I would opt not to unless it was a safety issue. I have had providers ask me not to review after a session due to the fact they are trying to keep a low profile. If a girl is new to the hobby and asks me to review her in order to get her name known I have no problem with that, but preferably after the session.
A friendly "would you mind..." at the end of the session or an e-mail is fine. I actually don't write reviews unless I'm asked to.
For writing reviews, I generally just do it. Reviews, praising or critical, are something that comes with the territory of being a TER-listed provider. So it's free advertising for her if she deserves it, or a cautionary tale to stay away if she doesn't. The one time I deliberately would not write a review, is when the session was just plain bad, and she or her agent/scheduler set off red flags in my head somehow (rude, mechanical, etc). This never happened, though, and hopefully, never will.
Whitelist referrals, on the other hand, I feel awkward asking for. I find that comparable to asking a civvie: "was it good for you too?" I just realize that not all providers give whitelist referrals or use them for verification, and act accordingly.
-- Modified on 5/2/2016 10:10:03 PM