If you only have 1 okay from 2010 you're going to be out of luck with me. Something newer is required.  

If you have 5 okays first from 2010 last from 2013... I'd take that. As long as you have an okay within the last year, I feel pretty comfortable. I know a lot of ladies move on but make sure when you do meet a new one that she gives you a new okay! This should help if you're meeting someone new every 6-12 months. Its also good to have one go-to reference who really likes you, and will give a reference for you at the drop of a hat. I have some friends I do this for because I know them so well/for so long.

I always contact the lady for more information because honestly what is "okay"?  Okay means different things to different people and doesn't say a whole lot really.     I don't bother at all if the okay is older than 9 months - 1 year....newer than 6 months is my preference.   If the Okays seem outdated,  I ask for additional current references.  If you see the same ladies frequently, its okay to ask for the update but not necessarily EVERY time you see her... every 3-6 months would be my suggestion.  I never fully ignore the guy unless he is being rude or asking indecent questions.

Hope that helps!
Belinda

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There have been rumors about LE infiltration on P411, so whenever someone is verifying with P411- I always make sure to contact their OK's. So- to me, how old the OK is isn't as important. Sometimes when I contact old OKs they'll say "Well, its been so long that I can't remember him, but I only give OKs to good guys".  As long as at least 1 of your OK's remembers you, or confirms that she only gives out OKs when the clients are good, then I'm fine with it.  

Essentially, to me- P411 is like a reference tool. I also like it because, I can take a look at the kind of girls that you like. Check out the services that they offer, their sites, etc. But, in term of screening, I always contact OKs.

I even had a lady in the past tell me that I was overly paranoid for keeping this practice, but it is my safety, so if I am paranoid, oh well. Most ladies though-99%- are happy to confirm an okay.

Pester away!!! It's no trouble... it's actually a pleasure

nd updated Ok's are golden.  

 
By the way, the ladies really love P411.  Some information came from Gina today... and we're all greatly benefited by their team!  Thank you P411 and thank you gents for supporting it!  Keeps us safer with P411 than without it!  That is for sure