I started with the Zingari Method: upscale restaurant lunch and $100. We had a great time. kisses and promises then she ghosted.
I switched to the GaGambler Method: the first two never showed up. Two more went Radio Silence after the appointment was set. Two did show up but were 6s at best so I passed. Another was on time, polite, educated and a great girl but there was no chemistry.
I switched back to the ZM (Zingari Method 
) upscale lunch plus shopping spree at Ulta plus $50 - great promises, French kissing , see you soon and....ghosted.
I therefore attest that both methods are equal ! (tongue in cheek
You didn't try Sweetman's method: drive your RV to a Wal-Mart parking lot and invite those SBs over, lol. Sorry you had such a rough go, brother. It sounds like you pressed a little with both girls on Date #1. You achieved first date kissing sessions, then they both "ghosted' on you. Expensive kisses for sure.
Tomorrow morning, I'm picking up my 19 year old SB & we're going to the mall: she wants a manicure ($25); then maybe Sephora ($40-$50). Then back to her apt where we're going to fuck ($400 allowance). For less than $500, we're spending all morning/early afternoon together. How much would that cost you while on the clock with your favorite P411 provider.
You know what happened on my first date with Miss SB? Nothing. We had lunch and light conversation. Halfway through lunch, I discreetly passed her an envelope with $100 inside. After lunch, we shook hands in the parking lot and the following exchange took place:
Z: Thanks for meeting me for lunch.
SB: Thank you for not being a creep.
We were in bed two days later. It's a low bar that you must clear, brother. But you need to clear it. Learn from your mistakes. The hobby impulse of the "quick fuck" will betray you when you're with an actual SB. Best of luck to you with any "method" that you use. --z
Looks like I need to fine tune the ZM. But I didn't initiate the kissing. They did. So what am I supposed to do? "Get off me you forward slut, who do you think I am?"
It's rare that I get to the DFK stage without scoring. Naturally I don't "always" get to first base, but once I do my scoring average is close to a hundred percent in the sugar world.
Now to add to the ZM, I also get the "thanks for not being a creep" as I almost never mention sex or even a hint about sex until I get some body language that is inviting me to. I never make statements like "how much?" nor do I EVER act like she "owes me" anything. I do initiate small baby steps like light hand touching, if she responds I keep going, if she pulls back, I NEVER push.
Hey it's ok if you want to poke fun at me but let me tell you, I am very successful in the Sugar Bowl and my methods work for me. I am careful about who I approach with messages, first of all. I will not pay them to meet for lunch or coffee. Lots of reasons. But basically, if they are not interested in me enough to risk wasting an hour of their time, I'm not either. I never press them for sex on that first date. I guess GaG has more game in that way, but I ask for a second date. I've never had a SB disappear on me after saying we'd get together again. But if that did happen I'd have lost some time and a few bucks spent for lunch, no big deal. As for the RV, my SBs really love it! They ask me to pick them up at a spot they choose, then we go and park somewhere. After several dates we might meet at her place or at mine but the RV is always an option, and a damn good one imho!
Are you in contact with girls daily? I feel like so many ghost if you don't set something up right away and meet asap after first contact.
I was just talking to a girl for a bit, on what she was looking for, thought we were going to meet. I ask her when she would be available to meet, then she says sorry I don't usually flake, and that's it.
That seems pretty common. However I don't see a pattern. My first one met me right away. Others take 2-3 weeks before they get around to reading your message. It's a chicken and egg situation. Most want cash up front for a meet because they get scammed so often. And guys don't want to because THEY get scammed so often.
Thanks for this comment.
Picking up a girl about an hour away from gym to meet for lunch on Monday. I stated 100 then 400 after for every meet and she seemed interested for lunch at least. In her profile she states:
Accompanying men on dates and being paid for doing so.
Not sure if she would be down for any intimacy. Any suggestions guys?
I also don't want to scare her off. I feel like if I bring it up right away, she will get creeped out and ghost.
Yes, just be upfront about what you're looking for: Sex. If she turns you down move on before it continues costing you more money for zero returns.