I figure that's what the fat waitress in the IHOP may call me..
Maybe just me, but this addresses. Were a boners killer to me. What are yours? if you have any, just curious.
In other words, chill. You'll enjoy life more.
I have no issue not using any endearments whatsoever, so long as you tell me up-front that you dislike it.
Although some of my reviews may indicate that I am a "Cock Whisperer", I really cannot read minds. LOL!
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I figure that's what the fat waitress in the IHOP may call me..
In Philadelphia and South Jersey diner waitress speak.
I may be corny and old-fashion, but I like it when gals call me cute names.
Here's a tune to groove to
I knew a lady that addresses me "Yes Sir" like an admiral or a royalty and drives me crazy but at the end she always redeemed herself and calls me YES! YES! YES! YESSSSSSSS SIRRRRRRRR aaaahhhhh.....
(Tabu) and not start our date by asking "What can I call you?"
I did select my name thoughtfully, and it doesn't seem too onerous to expect the lovely gents who have chosen me to address me that way!
Just sayin'.
Good thing to call folk's by their names.Instead sweetheart,sweetie,honey.Play SAFE folks.
for a reference and they start out with ..Hon..
I like to call men by their names ..
happy hobbying
Sorry not sorry but adding sexy to it doesn't make it cute. I don't mind dirty talk or being called kinky names but save it for the date especially if we've yet to even physically meet for the first time.
Oh and not a fan of most racial stuff.
I am not bothered by it but a couple gal's I know uses: "Hey Sexy", or "Hi Sexy", or a derivation of that-seems like a favorite of a few ! But again-I don't really mind-I know why we're here-so no big thing !!
I don't mind being called sexy lol.
I'm a lady of leisure but check yourself a little before especially before we've even had a first date.
Without repeating myself too much again I don't mind playful banter at all but i've had a few take it too far trying to be "nasty" before we've even had a first chance to meet...it's a little off-putting. I'm not your sexy little slut....yet.
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.....after our second meeting I started calling one of my ATF's "Fuck Buddy". I asked if she was OK with it and she said yes. Not as condescending, but gets the point across.
oh grandpa will definitely drive me out the door.
I totally agree. Honey, sugar, baby, sweetie, etc. are turn offs.
The total package involves many "angles," for example: those things that bring us together mutually.
Politics are also divisive, but some choose to bring that into a conversation.
Yeah, we're all different, but think of the things to discuss that can bring you closer together. Thing syou love to do for fun, compliments on features: personality, intellect, beauty, stimulating sexuality, etc.
It is always best to remembe that the sexual organ between the ears controls the others.
but i am from texas so it is instilled in my vocabulary
It's disengenuous and patronizing. (Unless I know you)
Im not so sure its what the lady calls you or what you call the lady as much as How -- tone, context, etc. Often you only know a providers "stage" name, and you know that is not her given name -- why would that be better than sweetie or honey? I don't find it a big deal unless it is demeaning or derogatory. Just my 2 cents worth.
I feel like as long as a person is being friendly towards me that's all that counts, although properly addressing someone but their name is better, saying " Hun" or " Sweetheart" a few times is ok for me 
I agree, I don't find it a big deal either unless it is demeaning or derogatory but I am aware that others think differently.
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It sounds affectionate and I like it. I wouldn't have a problem with sweetheart, sweetie, or honey.
Is often what one might think I'm calling them. As in "oh God! Oh GOD! OH GOD!!!"
Once I've simmered down I usually revert back to your name. As in " [first name], that was incredible!!! "