Keeping yourself low profile is fine, but I would get on a Verification site like P411 in the Nola area....its the best place where you can verify people without them feeling like they are giving you so much personal info...

Just a thought...

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How I used to ask when I was new and needed them...

First I ask if the guy ever reads reviews.  If the answer is no, I drop the subject.  If the answer is yes, I ask if he ever writes them.  If he says no as though he disdains the idea, I drop the subject.  If he says yes or sometimes or says that he hasn't written any yet, I would casually mention that I have not been reviewed yet, have not been reviewed recently, only have a couple reviews, etc., but that I appreciate reviews if he has any desire to write one.  And then I drop the subject.

Never pressure a guy into writing a review, just drop the hints and express that you are open to it IF he would be interested, and let him make his own decision.  It has worked great for me and the girlfriends who I have given this advice to!  

Good luck!  

I totally understand where u are coming from about guys not wanting to give up any info. I always politely remind them that we have our own reasons for anonymity and that we have our own bases to cover as far as safety and legality too... beyond that, I always ask for a racy/nude type pic to be exchanged (leo's will not text u a nude pic) and then also when the meet has begun, I never take any donation until both of us have 'gotten comfortable'. Even then I usually wait until some light kissing/play before I inquire about the white envelope. If any client comes in and tries shoving cash at you saying 'so we're gonna have s3x right?' RUN! hope that helps.