is if a provider has nothing going on after a date extending is usually ok as long as he is ready to pony up and asks her.

Say you see this guy, he is really nice and you have nothing but errands to run after(we all have shit going on all the time, but hey some things non-provider related can be rearranged easily enough) and he asks you if you have anything going on after and could he add some time to your date.  Would you turn him down simply because he didn't book the 2hrs in advance, or would you roll with it postpone running to the cleaners, going to the gym, doing your grocery shopping and extend your time with him?  I know what I would do but that is just me.  If I have the time and they are willing to gift properly I am good to continue on.  I don't see that as rude or disrespectful, just as he should not see it as rude or disrespectful if you do indeed get another booking after him and are unable to extend because he only booked 1hr in advance.  It is what it is and each person can handle it it the way they see fit.

It is interesting though should he mention possible extension in advance but chooses not to do it it could prove as many here state to be a very awkward time for both parties involved.  I mean can you see it, Provider "So you mention you might want to stay a little longer???"  Hanging in air as he thinks of what to say "Not this time, I am kinda feeling a little tired now that you have worn me out, maybe next time?"  LOL, we all know what that means, THANKS BUT NO THANKS....  LOL

Or, what if she feels you are not well matched....  Guest "So, I would really like to spend another hour with you because the 1st one was just so hot..."  Provider "I know we discussed extending but I really just don't think I can extend this visit, let me tell you about some of my friends you might like..."  Again, we know what this mean, THANKS BUT NO THANKS....  LOL AGAIN

The only issue with mentioning it in advance is that 1 or both of you could end up with hurt feelings after depending.  Personally I would do on a case by case and only ask ladies I had taken a liking to at the end of the session if she was able to extend for added $.  In that case it eliminates the hurt either way, you have no idea if she has something going on after so if she can't she can't and if you do not want the added time there isn't the thick air of wondering coming from the provider.

That is just me though.  I need to stop reading this board and go back to mine now.  TTFN, Sage