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Re: Nah, you are not quite in FWB territory, but you are close
camote16 34 Reviews 439 reads
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Didn't think of it that way. You're right Gambler.  Although I went to a sporting event in her area with friends once  an asked if she wanted to get dinner and drinks before I went home. Of course I couldn't work around her house. She was up for it so went by an picked her up. Quick hug an a kiss an we were off to the restaurant. I thought it'd be hang out, dinner and drinks an off to home for me. Obviously hoping for more but not expecting it. After our first drink her hand was on my crotch so I asked if there'd be more later. She said, oh yea, I'm horny. Back to her house for a lil fun an I was off to home. So I'm close to FWB. I'll see what happens next time the same occasion arises. It's all good tho as you say.  

Posted By: GaGambler
If she got someone else to do her "honey do" list and still fucked you, THEN she would be a FWB. You still have to put at least a little work into the deal, which puts you partly into BF territory, but I suppose I am kind of picking at nits. The important thing is that both of you are happy with the arrangement, does anything else really matter?

CuriousSort1247 reads

Hi Guys,

Been reading your stories with interest.  Nice to live vicariously through you!  Most of you seem to be finding the college girls needing money for school.  I live quite a ways away from any of the colleges.

I would be happy find someone in her 30's or 40's that lives close by.  Trouble is, I would think the older women are more established and less in need of cash.  However, if they are looking for someone who would treat them well I would have them covered.  lso, I'm quite capable of mentoring someone if that is what she is looking for.

Have any of you had luck finding an older woman willing to be a SB for a reasonable donation?  A

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Zangari518 reads

Those older SBs are definitely out there--they often send me unsolicited msgs which I ignore.  When searching the SB list,  my age filter is typically set at 18-24, although I'll sometimes bump it to 18-28.   My guess is a guy like you could plow the field of older SBs, since most of the guys on the site are competing for younger women.  --z

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GaGambler477 reads

One was a Thai Girl 33, charged me $300 per overnight date. Definitely in it for the money, but good value. Dropped her after a couple of months and maybe 10 dates

Another was also Asian, Laotian 38, very well kept for her age, charged $500 per overnight, also in it strictly for the money, great lay, very attractive, but with a mercenary side to her. Dropped her after two dates.

The last one "claimed" to be 29, at least mid thirties white girl. Saw her once, bought her a very nice dinner, had sex, no allowance at all. I've only seen her once, we'll see if it continues.

I've had a couple more, very late twenties both 29, never gave a penny of allowance to either. Still seeing one, the other went back to her BF of 9 years, this one I actually miss. She was GF material, she just wanted to be "treated nice" when I was the one to mention money, she refused it.  

Truthfully, I LIKE the ladies from 25-29, or even early thirties. If you are willing to extend your parameters into perhaps the 40's and you have any game, i am willing to be you can find "mature" SB's for a VERY reasonable donation, or perhaps no donation at all. I guess it would partly depend on your age as well. A successful 50 year old with game is going to do a LOT better than a 70 year old who has let himself go and only has money to offer.

That said, I have seen a lot of 40 something women who post ads that are very "hookerish" and some of these women undoubtedly charge even more than the college aged sweeties who are only trying to get an extra few hundred buck a week.

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sympathyforthedevil405 reads

I've fucked about 10 SB over 40. OK on the looks. Average performance. The really hot looking ones want way too much money IMO.  

I started chatting with a 50 yo lady yesterday morning. After about 6 hours of no contact she asks if I want to meet.   Now!  She comes over we chat a bit and she gave me a BJ. $30 for gas. Turns out she us going through a divorce and she blew me to get even with her husband who chested on her. I felt so....used. lol

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RichardCypher387 reads

Isn't it funny how men never seem to mind being "used"...LOL.

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AsianManNOVA473 reads

I think I still have game to pick up the average-looking ones at the bar for a few drinks so why would I pay for the sex with them? If you have to pay for the average-looking ones, 200 is more than enough.

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camote16518 reads

Is who I'm seeing right now. See her about 2X a month. We're 60 miles apart. Go to her house an do her honey do list while teasing, kissing an groping. Then off to a happy hour, dinner n drinks. Back to her house for an amazing time.

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sympathyforthedevil445 reads

What are you paying her?

Posted By: camote16
Is who I'm seeing right now. See her about 2X a month. We're 60 miles apart. Go to her house an do her honey do list while teasing, kissing an groping. Then off to a happy hour, dinner n drinks. Back to her house for an amazing time.

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camote16408 reads

Just my time to do the honey do list. No cash.  

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
 
 What are you paying her?  
Posted By: camote16
Is who I'm seeing right now. See her about 2X a month. We're 60 miles apart. Go to her house an do her honey do list while teasing, kissing an groping. Then off to a happy hour, dinner n drinks. Back to her house for an amazing time.

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GaGambler363 reads

Whatever it is, it sounds to be working just fine for the both of you. Kudos.

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camote16391 reads

More like FWB. get the full on GFE when I'm with her but only FWB relationship.  

Posted By: GaGambler
Whatever it is, it sounds to be working just fine for the both of you. Kudos.

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GaGambler402 reads

If she got someone else to do her "honey do" list and still fucked you, THEN she would be a FWB. You still have to put at least a little work into the deal, which puts you partly into BF territory, but I suppose I am kind of picking at nits. The important thing is that both of you are happy with the arrangement, does anything else really matter?

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camote16440 reads

Didn't think of it that way. You're right Gambler.  Although I went to a sporting event in her area with friends once  an asked if she wanted to get dinner and drinks before I went home. Of course I couldn't work around her house. She was up for it so went by an picked her up. Quick hug an a kiss an we were off to the restaurant. I thought it'd be hang out, dinner and drinks an off to home for me. Obviously hoping for more but not expecting it. After our first drink her hand was on my crotch so I asked if there'd be more later. She said, oh yea, I'm horny. Back to her house for a lil fun an I was off to home. So I'm close to FWB. I'll see what happens next time the same occasion arises. It's all good tho as you say.  

Posted By: GaGambler
If she got someone else to do her "honey do" list and still fucked you, THEN she would be a FWB. You still have to put at least a little work into the deal, which puts you partly into BF territory, but I suppose I am kind of picking at nits. The important thing is that both of you are happy with the arrangement, does anything else really matter?

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GaGambler345 reads

You have figured out what most SD/johns NEVER seem to learn. Not all women need an envelope stuffed with cash to be interested in you. I just spent my third night with a girl half my age I met on SA. Three dates, mind blowing sex every time and so far I haven't given her no cash what so ever.

I will admit these types of "arrangements" are not for the guys who are lazy and spoiled by the "sex on demand" that you get when paying for it, whether it be hooker or SB. Last night we sat and made out of the couch for what seemed like hours despite me asking more than a couple of times if she wanted to "move to the bedroom" With a hooker we would have gone right to the bedroom because I would have been the customer and that's just the way it works. Finally we smoked a bowl, or rather she smoked a bowl and I took a single hit, but that put her over the top into moving things along, but once we started it was me finally begging to stop a couple of hours later. lol

Yes, I still like hooker sex, but "non hooker" sex can really much so much more satisfying, especially when you aren't 100% certain you are going to get sex at all. I know I am still rather jaded, but I hope to never get so jaded as to want to write off all non hooker sex as "too much work"

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CuriousSort363 reads

I learn a lot from you guys.  Thanks for the replies.  I seriously need to find me a SB.  Any age range from 25 - 40 would work for me as long as she is relatively attractive.  

Please keep up the discussion!  I love hearing about your adventures and stories.  :

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RachaelLee589 reads

Have you tried SeekingArrangements.com? Most of the ladies on there are younger, but there are a few middle aged, even older, women on there.

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CuriousSort424 reads

I was on there for a little bit but wasn't sure I could trust the site.  They advertise you can get a trial with 10 free messages without having to pay. What they don't tell you is that you can receive 10 messages but not read them or answer them.  I wanted to see a few messages to get a sense if the site was legit or just full of bots messaging everybody trying to get people to pay for an account.  I ended up deleting my account.  There are enough people here reporting success with it though that I may sign up again.

Posted By: RachaelLee
Have you tried SeekingArrangements.com? Most of the ladies on there are younger, but there are a few middle aged, even older, women on there.

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GaGambler508 reads

Overall, I am absolutely thrilled with the site.

I find it's a life saver when you find yourself in a hooker dessert, I am heading up to go salmon fishing in northern Michigan next week, and there are virtually no hookers up in that part of the world, certainly no "well reviewed TER providers" that is for sure.  

Well just for shits and grins, I started viewing profiles in a fifty mile radius and while there weren't hundreds of hotties to pick from like there are in most major cities there were a few, a couple of them "viewed" me in response to my having "viewed" them, I reached out to a couple of them and voila, I have a date for Wednesday night with a hot looking 24 year old for dinner. I don't have the slightest idea if it's going to end up in sex, nor do I even much care (well yes, I suppose I do care, lol) the important thing is that I now have a date with a hottie who hasn't even spoken a word about money. I have already decided that I am going to throw her a couple of hundred bucks just for showing up looking like she does in her pics, but I can tell just from her attitude that she is going to be a fun date and I am willing to bet I will end up waking up Thursday morning with her:)

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CuriousSort379 reads

Thanks GA.  Its good to know that you're having success.  Did you have to have a lot of discussion with her to convince her to go on a date with you or was she more than willing without much talk?  Did she need to see your photo first?

Please post a recap of how your date goes!  Its inspiring.   :)
 

Posted By: GaGambler
Overall, I am absolutely thrilled with the site.  
   
 I find it's a life saver when you find yourself in a hooker dessert, I am heading up to go salmon fishing in northern Michigan next week, and there are virtually no hookers up in that part of the world, certainly no "well reviewed TER providers" that is for sure.  
   
 Well just for shits and grins, I started viewing profiles in a fifty mile radius and while there weren't hundreds of hotties to pick from like there are in most major cities there were a few, a couple of them "viewed" me in response to my having "viewed" them, I reached out to a couple of them and voila, I have a date for Wednesday night with a hot looking 24 year old for dinner. I don't have the slightest idea if it's going to end up in sex, nor do I even much care (well yes, I suppose I do care, lol) the important thing is that I now have a date with a hottie who hasn't even spoken a word about money. I have already decided that I am going to throw her a couple of hundred bucks just for showing up looking like she does in her pics, but I can tell just from her attitude that she is going to be a fun date and I am willing to bet I will end up waking up Thursday morning with her:)

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GaGambler370 reads

which I do understand could be painfully agonizing for those TER guys who haven't had a civvie date since high school, but it was quite painless. I "viewed" quite a few potential SB's in the area, a few of them saw that I had viewed them and viewed me back. This one I mentioned that I would be in the area and that I'd love to have dinner and drink with a beautiful woman if she was so inclined and she said yes. Not a lot more to it than that.

For the record we had ZERO conversation about either sex or money. I haven't promised her a penny although I have every intention of giving her a few bucks whether she sleeps with me or not, and neither of us spoke about having sex together. I, being the cocksure motherfucker that I am, remain rather confident that due to my good looks and charm, I will indeed be spending the night with her either paid or unpaid. (most likely paid. lol) But if not, I still will have gotten to enjoy the company of a beautiful woman for a few hours in a strange town where hoping to "get lucky" in a local bar is hoping beyond hope.

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CuriousSort395 reads

Very enlightening.  Did she request to see your photo before agreeing or is she meeting you sight unseen?  I assume by "talk" you mean you talked with her on the phone, too, and not just through the site?

Reading these posts are very encouraging.   I had thought that the odds of anyone from SA agreeing to meet might be rather slim but it seems like that's not the case.  Sorry about all the questions...I'm just trying to figure out if the success has to be about having a lot of game or if the girls are really open to meeting anyone who is a decent and caring person and who honors the arrangement.

 

Posted By: GaGambler
which I do understand could be painfully agonizing for those TER guys who haven't had a civvie date since high school, but it was quite painless. I "viewed" quite a few potential SB's in the area, a few of them saw that I had viewed them and viewed me back. This one I mentioned that I would be in the area and that I'd love to have dinner and drink with a beautiful woman if she was so inclined and she said yes. Not a lot more to it than that.  
   
 For the record we had ZERO conversation about either sex or money. I haven't promised her a penny although I have every intention of giving her a few bucks whether she sleeps with me or not, and neither of us spoke about having sex together. I, being the cocksure motherfucker that I am, remain rather confident that due to my good looks and charm, I will indeed be spending the night with her either paid or unpaid. (most likely paid. lol) But if not, I still will have gotten to enjoy the company of a beautiful woman for a few hours in a strange town where hoping to "get lucky" in a local bar is hoping beyond hope.

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GaGambler359 reads

I am 57 and before I posted my pic a lot of women would not respond to my initial message, there are some VERY old guys out there at 57, fortunately I am not one of them

and no, I did not talk to this girl over the phone, we did exchange a few texts though.

I have been on SA for around six months, during which time I have met about 30 women. I have had sex with about 20 of them, Of the rest, one of them was looking for more than I was willing to give, not too high a dollar amount, just too much of a commitment, two of the girls I have only had one date with and haven't slept with "yet", but plan on it. and about a half dozen or so just didn't do it for me, so we had dinner, drinks or whatever, said our good nights and never saw each other again MY CHOICE. Oops, I almost forgot, one girl wanted to meet SEVERAL times before progressing to anything sexual, GOOD BYE. lol

Of the twenty or so that I have slept with, well over half were on the first date, all the rest on the second date, So far I have not gone two dates without getting laid. and I think I am up to four women that I have had sex with without paying any "allowance" at all

Too answer your question, I don't think a lot of game is necessary to get a date. and if you are willing to do it Zangari's way and be up front about a financial commitment, very little game is required. The way I play it is much different, but I kind of like the challenge and I don't mind 'striking out" as I always have either hookers or another SB to fall back on, but so far I have struck out very few times, or at least not after getting a girl to respond.

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CuriousSort359 reads

GA,

Thanks for the reply.   I had a 2 hour session (my first 2 hour) with an escort today.  She mentioned that most of the guys who see her are married and they go home to someone and she is all alone and lonely at the end of the day.  She would like to see someone where you go out to dinner, etc.  I talked to her a bit about a sugar baby arrangement and she would be up for it and I know she would be reasonably priced if not free.  But ultimately she wasn't that attractive to me and I will pass.  But I got a chance today for the first time to get a bit of experience and insight into some possibilities.

As always, I appreciate hearing your stories.  Please keep sharing you experiences.  :)

Posted By: GaGambler
I am 57 and before I posted my pic a lot of women would not respond to my initial message, there are some VERY old guys out there at 57, fortunately I am not one of them  
   
 and no, I did not talk to this girl over the phone, we did exchange a few texts though.  
   
 I have been on SA for around six months, during which time I have met about 30 women. I have had sex with about 20 of them, Of the rest, one of them was looking for more than I was willing to give, not too high a dollar amount, just too much of a commitment, two of the girls I have only had one date with and haven't slept with "yet", but plan on it. and about a half dozen or so just didn't do it for me, so we had dinner, drinks or whatever, said our good nights and never saw each other again MY CHOICE. Oops, I almost forgot, one girl wanted to meet SEVERAL times before progressing to anything sexual, GOOD BYE. lol  
   
 Of the twenty or so that I have slept with, well over half were on the first date, all the rest on the second date, So far I have not gone two dates without getting laid. and I think I am up to four women that I have had sex with without paying any "allowance" at all  
   
 Too answer your question, I don't think a lot of game is necessary to get a date. and if you are willing to do it Zangari's way and be up front about a financial commitment, very little game is required. The way I play it is much different, but I kind of like the challenge and I don't mind 'striking out" as I always have either hookers or another SB to fall back on, but so far I have struck out very few times, or at least not after getting a girl to respond.

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GaGambler390 reads

It's a great confidence booster knowing that "someone" said yes to you. Now take that same attitude with you when talking to hotter women and who knows where it will lead. lol

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