As far as my weekend experience it was a bad day but nothing that I couldn't deal with! Looking back I should have taken the advice I was always given from my father. If you dont have something good to say don't say anything at all! I will go back to my old ways of just monitoring the boards now and then and keeping to myself. I try to treat myself to a treat once a month. Been no better place than right her on ter for helping me with my monthly fix! I apologize if I rubbed anyone the wrong way! Except for 2+2=jackass. You would have been someone I would have liked to run in to in the back alley 25 years ago for a little attitude adjustment! Those days are behind me too!
Drove two hours for two no shows! One had what I thought was a legit excuse and other just no contact back. Kinda upset but still want to see her so don't want to burn any bridges just yet. Both well reviewed!
So your saying you double booked with two different ladies and one had to back out due to "what you thought was legit" reasons and the other hasn't replied to you on a Saturday afternoon. I just don't get it. So you don't really believe the first girl because girl number 2 hasn't replied, and you don't want to burn any bridges what does that mean?
Maybe when your girls went to do the references check they found out you booked with both of them.
Either way I can see why your posting under an alias since it seems like you're actually the one in the wrong.
Are you involved and have information about this that the OP has withheld? I read his post again and still cannot make half of the assumptions that you have jumped too. I can't assume he double booked, smartphones allow a guy to book on the go causing him to get NSed twice on one trip into town. Calm down and take things at face value first.
He would be stupid to admit that. I interpreted it as he came to town and booked two appointments one after the other and both no call no showed or after the first provider no call no showed he attempted to book another provider and she no call no showed too.
Are you one of the girls that no call no showed him and now trying to show a double booking as an excuse for no call no showing before he outs you? It wouldn't surprise me if you did.
HA...talk about assumptions... Kettle calling the pot there, slow down.
As admittedly so should have I, guess I'm not used to thinking of appointments back to back is all.
You guys are so predictable though,
always so quick with the angry little jabs, for good 'ol intentions- L. O. L
I was actually just wondering why he would doubt one girl for whatever the second one did
Really? Read his explanation below and turn off your ego. I would never say "You girls are so predictable" nor should anyone make such a broad assumption.
OMG, if I can be misunderstood, it seems I always will be! the comment about being predictable is for the one or two that seem to hunt my comments (wether it's guys or girls whatever) a certain "immer," takes great pleasure in jabbing at any comment I make, that is what is predictable. Jeezez
Have a nice day everyone.
I am not the one who had a huge mea culpa last week after trying to defend the livelihood of a provider with a history of scamming clients. That was you.
Look at the original post again. Where did the OP state that he double booked? He never did. You are the one who made an assumption and jumped to that conclusion.
Even if you misinterpreted his use of DNS to mean Do Not See, it was of no consequence because he used an alias and didn't name anyone in his post. Now if you were one of those that canceled on him because you falsely believed he was a known double booker from the south, that is on you, not him.
No I don't take pleasure in jabbing every comment you make. I only point out to others when I see some of your comments are nonsense. Like your comments in the wreck last week, it is good that you used an alias. Your defense of a now unlisted provider was just nutty and then using an excuse that you didn't know in your mea culpa. Well if you didn't know, do not comment about it and do not make an assumption.
Well too bad givvva I don't believe you, you DO hunt my posts and try like hell to make me something I'm not.
"You only point out to others..."
how ridiculous that you feel it necessary to point at me!
Human beings are not perfect, I can voice my opinion anytime I want. I was no way affiliated with the DNS 's and I'm sure you now realize as much, play good guy all you want, I see you for who you are.
I will continue to share my opinion when I feel like it and if I decide to change my mind or find out that I am wrong I will humbly admit it and continue on in life,
You will not bully me into silence, so just accept it.
I don't wait in frustration and anger to jump up and bring down others. I say what I want when It comes to mind,
just like anyone else in a discussion board does.
spin things however you want, save it for your cronies,
anyone who knows me knows the truth.
You can ignore and spin many things, but your own petty reasoning doesn't make something fact.
Good luck imma
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This is a free board, I have never tried to stop you or anyone else from posting. You can post all you want. Every time you post nonsense, it is out there for all to see. I don't have to point it out to anyone. With every post of yours, you make yourself look dumber. I am just not afraid to say it.
I don't wait in frustration and anger to jump up and bring down others. That is you waiting to bring men down, not me. Like everyone else I am just laughing at you!
I love how every BSC, man hating provider says "anyone who knows me knows the truth." Well, we know you, we just have to read what you post. The truth is you hate men, that's ok because you are not alone.
The one gal did call me and apologize with what I thought was a legit excuse as I said earlier. I received an email from the other saying she got her period. Received the email a couple hours after my first post and 6 hours after the original time we were to meet. As far as the alias I'm not really sure why I did that. First time I have used one.
As admittedly so should have I, guess I'm not used to thinking of appointments back to back is all.
You guys are so predictable though,
always so quick with the angry little jabs, for good 'ol intentions- L. O. L
I was actually just wondering why he would doubt one girl for whatever the second one did.
Mainly because you were just venting- not naming names
Both appts were made and confirmed yesterday. A early morning full service appt and a noon massage appt. No double book. Was going to see them both.
Maybe when your girls went to do the references check they found out you booked with both of them.
Either way I can see why your posting under an alias since it seems like you're actually the one in the wrong.
Oh ok I get it,
Now, sorry I was confused and jumped to the conclusion of double booking, it's certainly not uncommon.
Also you did lead with the title DNS and that means do not see, so I guess I thought (from the information you first gave)
It seemed a little harsh to tell anyone not to see two ladies, one that had something come up, and the other that
(from the way you first worded it) sounded like you simply inquired, but of course I wouldn't have realized you and second girl confirmed. Anyway just discussing the topics of...the....you know.....discussion board.
No biggie, sorry for your loss. Better luck next time eh. 
My bad! Did not show is what I meant by dns.
Now, sorry I was confused and jumped to the conclusion of double booking, it's certainly not uncommon.
Also you did lead with the title DNS and that means do not see, so I guess I thought (from the information you first gave)
It seemed a little harsh to tell anyone not to see two ladies, one that had something come up, and the other that
(from the way you first worded it) sounded like you simply inquired, but of course I wouldn't have realized you and second girl confirmed. Anyway just discussing the topics of...the....you know.....discussion board.
No biggie, sorry for your loss. Better luck next time eh.
Maybe I haven't been paying attention, but I took DNS for did not show. bigdell
Now, sorry I was confused and jumped to the conclusion of double booking, it's certainly not uncommon.
Also you did lead with the title DNS and that means do not see, so I guess I thought (from the information you first gave)
It seemed a little harsh to tell anyone not to see two ladies, one that had something come up, and the other that
(from the way you first worded it) sounded like you simply inquired, but of course I wouldn't have realized you and second girl confirmed. Anyway just discussing the topics of...the....you know.....discussion board.
No biggie, sorry for your loss. Better luck next time eh.
don't think that way- Did Not Show is guy talk
it was interesting that so many jumped to conclusions before giving the OP a chance to explain.
nd make it seem like many jumped to conclusions when only one did in this thread that I can see.
& sorry that it flopped and glad to see it got better!
A few (minority) on this board show themselves as inherently unhappy and jump to the worst conclusions regularly, that you, sadfromthesouth, in contrast, sound inherently happy!
Yeah for happy endings. (had to).
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So quick:
There is a gentleman 1) who does live approx 2 hours south of the cities, 2) who is notorious for double booking with no intent on seeing both girls, 3) who has been outed on this board by a few of us for this very reason (why he might use an alias), 4) and is our many of our DNS lists (he has been told that).
I'm absolutely not assuming the OP is one in the same just stating some similarities in the two and that might be why some made assumptions.
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There is a gentleman 1) who does live approx 2 hours south of the cities, 2) who is notorious for double booking with no intent on seeing both girls, 3) who has been outed on this board by a few of us for this very reason (why he might use an alias), 4) and is our many of our DNS lists (he has been told that).
I'm absolutely not assuming the OP is one in the same just stating some similarities in the two and that might be why some made assumptions.
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I won't accuse you of being one or the other but since you're using an alias I am hesitant to stand behind you & say wholeheartedly I am sorry this happened. If you're not one of them, I am sorry. If you are, all I'll say is it looks like Karma just introduced herself.
I am a relatively newbie. Just been in the hobby a little over a year! Probably should just shut up and let this thread die? Question for bri. Has these two guys that have been discussed from the south that have been mentioned besides me ever seen you and reviewed you? Because I have done both. Had a great time and reflected that in my review. Again probably should let this die. I have never had any trouble until this past Saturday and have never double booked or not shown up for a date.
Thx
There is a gentleman 1) who does live approx 2 hours south of the cities, 2) who is notorious for double booking with no intent on seeing both girls, 3) who has been outed on this board by a few of us for this very reason (why he might use an alias), 4) and is our many of our DNS lists (he has been told that).
I'm absolutely not assuming the OP is one in the same just stating some similarities in the two and that might be why some made assumptions.
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If you got no showed, then complain under your real handle instead of making up a new alias for this thread.
Otherwise, your plaint that you are not one of the famed no showers from the south who also likes to endless chat with ladies on line rings false.
I am writing from an alias true
But I largely use it for
Smacking guys like you.
If I have a beef with a lady who ran,
I talk about it under my main handle and take what comes like a man
So, when posting about the gals you should man up and not use an alias. When hammering a fellow hobbyist, it's OK to use your alias. Weird logic! The OP has nothing to apologize for!
Otherwise, your plaint that you are not one of the famed no showers from the south who also likes to endless chat with ladies on line rings false.
I am writing from an alias true
But I largely use it for
Smacking guys like you.
If I have a beef with a lady who ran,
I talk about it under my main handle and take what comes like a man.
I, myself, am not pointing fingers or assuming you are either one ... I just wanted to say there is a reason some may think that.
Side note: neither of the two previously mentioned are newbies so hopefully that helps.
Being stood up by anyone sucks and I hope your next visit is a better one
Brilove, of course you are not suggesting that the OP is one of those scoundrels living two hours south. You did, however, put the possibility out there and start the connection. Now, thanks to you, two more posters (UTR Provider and 2+2=4) have linked the OP with those unnamed double bookers. Way to go! I guess anyone living about two hours from the cities (he didn't even say south) can now be linked to those bad boys.
Side note: neither of the two previously mentioned are newbies so hopefully that helps.
Being stood up by anyone sucks and I hope your next visit is a better one
He may be ... He may be not ... I don't know ... You don't know ... He used an alias so either way none of us know do we???
Nothing I said did or will hurt him ... Again he is using an alias ... He will not use his alias when setting up future appointments so what's the issue? I stated why some might think it's him, well I thought maybe it could be and still don't know for sure ... I'm sure he isn't crying over my post.
People just like to bitch!!!
Hey bri
I will be disclosing myself to you in person in the very near future! How was your annual canoe trip?
Nothing I said did or will hurt him ... Again he is using an alias ... He will not use his alias when setting up future appointments so what's the issue? I stated why some might think it's him, well I thought maybe it could be and still don't know for sure ... I'm sure he isn't crying over my post.
People just like to bitch!!!
We all use aliases. The point is that you needlessly connected the OP with a couple of guys who double book. You also cast suspicion on anyone from a couple of hours south of the cities. This is exactly how false rumors get started.
I mean seriously, look how two additional posters picked up on what you wrote suggesting that Sad could be the "doublebooker" And now I'm also a bitcher because I pointed out a legitimate concern about your careless innuendo.
But you are right, I see, that sadfromthesouth holds no grudges so I should have kept out of it. I learned something, did you?
Nothing I said did or will hurt him ... Again he is using an alias ... He will not use his alias when setting up future appointments so what's the issue? I stated why some might think it's him, well I thought maybe it could be and still don't know for sure ... I'm sure he isn't crying over my post.
People just like to bitch!!!
Do have one grudge! 2+2=4!!
I mean seriously, look how two additional posters picked up on what you wrote suggesting that Sad could be the "doublebooker" And now I'm also a bitcher because I pointed out a legitimate concern about your careless innuendo.
But you are right, I see, that sadfromthesouth holds no grudges so I should have kept out of it. I learned something, did you?
Nothing I said did or will hurt him ... Again he is using an alias ... He will not use his alias when setting up future appointments so what's the issue? I stated why some might think it's him, well I thought maybe it could be and still don't know for sure ... I'm sure he isn't crying over my post.
People just like to bitch!!!
I now know and am certain whether it was him (a notorious double booker) but that does not matter as I said before he will not use his alias to make an appointment so no need to clarify any farther plus the providers all know on here who the double bookers are as we share that info regularly and if not you can PM me for that info.
Also what I learned is that people will jump to conclusions and start questioning anyone who may somewhat fit a description of another that is put on the board (happened to me a few weeks ago regarding a theft that I had no part of ... I got so many emails I was shocked) ... That's not right and I apologize if anyone has got any undo backlash from my post.
I was kinda hoping you would exonerate me for the record? Or do you and others think i am the double booker? If you do go ahead and say it! Again I guess it doesn't really matter? I do remember doing a favor for you on some wording you did not agree with in my review. Which was a honest mistake and you were right about!
Also what I learned is that people will jump to conclusions and start questioning anyone who may somewhat fit a description of another that is put on the board (happened to me a few weeks ago regarding a theft that I had no part of ... I got so many emails I was shocked) ... That's not right and I apologize if anyone has got any undo backlash from my post.
I hate it when this happens, WTF is their time more valuable than yours?
As far as my weekend experience it was a bad day but nothing that I couldn't deal with! Looking back I should have taken the advice I was always given from my father. If you dont have something good to say don't say anything at all! I will go back to my old ways of just monitoring the boards now and then and keeping to myself. I try to treat myself to a treat once a month. Been no better place than right her on ter for helping me with my monthly fix! I apologize if I rubbed anyone the wrong way! Except for 2+2=jackass. You would have been someone I would have liked to run in to in the back alley 25 years ago for a little attitude adjustment! Those days are behind me too!
What took you so long to learned that 2+4=2 is a jackass. I got that almost the first time I was the forum. Anyway, you shouldn't feel bad about posting your experiences here. Saves us time, like I said before WTF is her time more valuable then yours/mine? Wished you would have outed her here.