I will trade you my interests in a Refridgerator company in Alaska?
'rockI've been chatting with a young woman on another site for several months. We have been teasing each other online. She is out of state and I truly and I seriously have feelings and desires for the younger woman. She asked to stay with me for awhile and explore my local area and I accepted. She is the type of lady I could consider for a long term relationship, even at the tender age of 33.
Here is the problem. She plans to be intimate with me (not necessary a bad thing). She also let slip that she has never had sex with anyone else before. That is MY problem.
Ladies, did your first do anything special to make your first time more enjoyable? Would you have preffered something had happen in technique with your knowledge today?
Gentlemen, have you had any first timers and changed your technique or game plan?
I understand there are LOTS of other issues that are on my mind. Please be gently if you add them to my worries.
'rock'
sometimes fairy tales do come true..
...finally lose her virginity to someone she's never seen in person? I'm dubious.*
*Smith & Dale
SMITH: Are you a doctor?
DALE: I'm a doctor.
SMITH: I'm dubious.
DALE: I'm glad to know you, Mr. Dubious
It's quite unusual for a woman to have remained a virgin till the age of 33. Did she decide ages ago to save herself for that special someone? Does she believe that her first time should be magical and perfect like a fairytale? I think it's likely she has some very huge expectations or baggage attached to this act that may result in her being disappointed no matter what you do. So talk to her. Reassure her that sex is wonderful, but it takes time and practice to learn skills. It takes practice to learn how your own body responds and what you like the best and how to communicate that to your partner. NOBODY is great at it the first time, even if they are with a caring experienced lover. Be willing to expect a good time without too much pressure or expectations. If it goes great, that's wonderful. If it's not that great, no worries, you just need more practice!
Thank you for the positive advice.
To everyone else, I have also heard all the bells and flashing lights (I swear there is a robbut calling out, "DANGER! DANGER! WILL ROBINSON"). I have used the skills that you all have taught me here is researching escorts.
The most amaizing part so far is there have been no request for $$$. Nada, zip, zero. Just the room request and a arrival date.
Ladies, your input is also desired.
'rock'
OK I've read ll the dire warnings you've received. And maybe I am too quick to assume people are telling the truth about themselves. So do your due diligence. Don't let her know where you live. Meet her in public. Or as one monger suggested, hop on a plane and go see her tomorrow and find out for yourself if she's a nutcase or scammer. There's always the slim chance she is exactly what she claims to be. But Dude, you gotta tell us all how this turns out! Promise??
... if I were you, alarm bells and not wedding bells would be ringing. Do you really trust this woman to stay with you in your home although you never have actually met, and a 33-year-old virgin who has been teasing you to boot? Why don't you either go see her for yourself -- and stay in a hotel, not at her place -- or if she comes to you, put her up in a hotel for a night or two first.
Sorry but this whole thing sounds a bit off and it's all too easy for little head to overrule big head, the logical, thinking one...
then why are you coming for advice to a fuck board and asking a bunch of whoremongers? I, for one, have no interest in fucking virgins and have no experience in the matter.
And I thought who had lived every teen dream. I asked here because I thought a f-ckmonger board would have the experience I didn't.
'rock'
and is six foot three with a beard and a gun, enjoy being the naive one.
1- If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
2- There ain't no fool like an old fool.
Here is the problem. She plans to be intimate with me (not necessary a bad thing). She also let slip that she has never had sex with anyone else before. That is MY problem.
Ladies, did your first do anything special to make your first time more enjoyable? Would you have preffered something had happen in technique with your knowledge today?
Gentlemen, have you had any first timers and changed your technique or game plan?
I understand there are LOTS of other issues that are on my mind. Please be gently if you add them to my worries.
'rock'
Scenario VERY carefully before you agree to a thing, including meeting this unicorn
CATFISH, for crissake!
Give us a break ss. If you are communicating with this "gal" on a site such as SFF or one of its' sister sites, please be aware that these sites are rife with fraudulent ads. This person made initial contact with you, right? Odds are, if you pursue this, that whomever you are communicating with is actually in some other country, might not even be a woman, and will eventually ask for funds to pay for airfare to your location, sent via Western Union. This is too good to be true. Run!! If you are foolish enough to send money, the only further communication you can expect is a plea for more money.
If you haven't already done so, ask for a Skype session. I'd bet the farm that there will an excuse to not be able to do that. Run!!
If you seek the touch and scent of a woman, do your looking here on TER and hire a professional who will satisfy your needs.
If you wish for companionship that may actually lead to a long term relationship, google reviews of the best dating sites for seniors and go with one of the top 3 listed. These will be the sites for which you see ads on tv nearly every day. If you live in or near a major metropolitan area there are scads of women on these sites that you can meet in person over coffee or a cocktail within hours or days of first communication who live close by.
Look guys, I have talked with her on my cell, have seen her pictures, Skyped with here and e-mailed to an account that has her name on it. We have been doing all this since before the last winter holidays. There is no tiny eye trail on her number or photos. I have even Skyped with here mother, who gave the 3rd degree and they look like family.
My Spidy sence is shaking me, I hear all the bells, and everything seem just TGTBT. And it not TOMORROW but the thanksgiving holiday (several months notice, like real people). Everything is telling me to RUN LIKE THE WIND.
'rock'
You're trying hard to convince yourself, and us, that this is for real, despite your own gut instincts. What's the distance between? Cut to the chase and go find out, like tomorrow. Are you really intent on carrying on for another 4+ months like this before meeting, after investing 7+ already? Geez man, grow up and get a life. A real one in your own community.
Please answer just one question. Did she initiate contact with you by flirt or by liking you on a dating website? If the answer is yes, then this is for sure a scam.
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Here is the problem. She plans to be intimate with me (not necessary a bad thing). She also let slip that she has never had sex with anyone else before. That is MY problem.
Ladies, did your first do anything special to make your first time more enjoyable? Would you have preffered something had happen in technique with your knowledge today?
Gentlemen, have you had any first timers and changed your technique or game plan?
I understand there are LOTS of other issues that are on my mind. Please be gently if you add them to my worries.
'rock'
I will trade you my interests in a Refridgerator company in Alaska?
'rock
It's super strange to be a virgin at 33. Intimacy issues? Social awkwardness? Batshit crazy parents? Or it's a lie. Run, Forest, run!!!!!
Not gonna get fucked, just fucked. This sounds so fishy. Be careful. CR