I'm a overall furry guy (not beastly, just a little furry) but started manscaping 2 years ago. Bald on the balls and 1/4" fringe on the upper portion. Certainly a recognizable anomaly but wife has never mentioned it or questioned. I suppose she rarely gets close enough to even notice it - and that's why I'm here. If you don't care enough to even mention it in passing then you shouldn't care if I show it to somebody who does.
I have seen threads on hobbyists preference for a provider's grooming, but I would like to know how providers prefer hobbyists to be manscaped.
I love me some hair on the bottom of the shaft - I think it's sexy. But if you'request clean shaven and/or waxed with no stubble, then that'll work too!
Otherwise, I love it when the balls and asshole are waxed so that nothing gets in the way on my tongue. *lick lick*
To me, I prefer, trimmed down, to like a 1/2 inch or so. When it is too short, it's irritating, and too long can get caught in the teeth 
I appreciate the input. So no one prefers a man to shave everything?
It's all personal preference. I would say that if you are going to shave clean, try to shave as close to the time of your date as possible, like within hours.
and yes, suck it up and just buy it. No one cares at the store lol! It helps pull out the loose hairs that are ready to fall out. Just comb comb comb (after washing thoroughly all and every where down there). It'll keep the loose ones from easily falling into the mouths.
That always messes up my spit factory. Having a little hair rolling around, and I can't get into it, because I feel like the guy can feel the little hair rubbing agains the tip, etc. (Do you guys feel that?)
Trimming a little bit helps too.
-- Modified on 2/5/2016 11:51:24 PM
If there is no questioning at home, what would you prefer? Short trim and completely clean scrotum or completely clean everywhere?
Not going to lie, the only time I'm worried is if the hair is falling out into my mouth. I like manscaped different for each guy. I don't have a "type" of manscaping. As long as it's clean and there's a penis there, it's a non issue to me. But again, I may be a different breed.
I'm a overall furry guy (not beastly, just a little furry) but started manscaping 2 years ago. Bald on the balls and 1/4" fringe on the upper portion. Certainly a recognizable anomaly but wife has never mentioned it or questioned. I suppose she rarely gets close enough to even notice it - and that's why I'm here. If you don't care enough to even mention it in passing then you shouldn't care if I show it to somebody who does.
told someone that my W would not be able to pick my dick out of a line up if her life depended on it 😂
but then again, I'm not gonna' lie, it keeps me in business lmao! Come to me... I'll recognize him for you. There, there. 😛
is clean shaven so I can spend alot of time getting to know all of the yummy parts down there very initimately.
Not a deal breaker if you aren't but you are likely to get more personalized service down "there" if you are over if you are not.
But I don't mind too much either way! However, it's a huge turn-off when the balls/shaft/asshole are a total jungle. Keep it furry but high and tight!
An interesting question that is complicated to answer.
For me the answer is that if I groomed a lot my wife would notice, so I trim but don't go bare so I don't need to explain.