when you play BP roulette..it is only a matter of time before your balls drop into the wrong hole..
I'm stuck or maybe not the right word to described it a feeling of recklessness at my old age. I've been finding a good source for new talent of providers lately from the other site that most considered it dicey place, BP and been successful so far. My reasoning about is, I am getting bored, I realized I've been playing safe ever since I started this hobby using the reliable/reputable sites like TER, P411, GLS which were great to me. But I figured the challenges is no longer there, because you know exactly when & how to obtain what you want and looking for, if you need it. It had become routine. The sense of adventure is not quite exciting anymore, like pushing the envelope all the way to the edge, taking a calculated risk, facing a new place of uncharted territory that has a potential of disaster or success, had become more appealing to me and convince myself which is a hobby is all about, "adventures". It sounds sick but looks like I'm on my mid-life crisis all over again. input please...
P.S. BTW: The challenges is. Not overly wild, but I still do my homework and steps of verification sites to help separate the wheat from the chaffs..
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Those are legal....
Hey, whatever floats your boat (short of children & animals, of course).
At least you are aware of the risks...
Safe, Safe & now a days very safe booring hobby, done it and it gets old and don't really give orgasams.
when you play BP roulette..it is only a matter of time before your balls drop into the wrong hole..
... Where you arrange to have the door busted down in mid-session by a huge boyfriend or pimp. The two of them beat the shit out of you and then rob you of all your money and clothes. Would that be enough adventure to bring the thrill back?
No disrespect intended but I do not associate TER and P411 with the word "routine". Its more like variety, excitement. I'm thinking you are looking for thrills through risk taking not recklessness. Have you tried bondage, domination/submission, edging, Doubles, Triples (now thats a rush!), sisters, mother/daughter, a mature lady with a 20-something, a BBBJ week, an FBSM with a not FS provider - all a thrill! All findable on TER & P411.
....tease & denial, how about a dominatrix teaching you domination with a submissive subject (freaking amazing that), being the new escorts first client (an honor not to be taken lightly), a trip to a brothel - work your way through the lineup (yes some of the ladies are on TER), Meeting the lady at a bar where one of the patrons is her hubby then going back with her to their bed (a little odd but quite a fun edge), a double where you are with one lady first while the other watches then change who is watching...
Buy another,bigger, faster,more expensive, red sports car :>)
Of course, remember to remove the seat belts.
However, I always play it safe. To break the boredom, I recently did a double which was very different to say the least, but at my age I realized that I am wired for 110 and not 220. I also have done s&m as both a top and a bottom. There are many providers who can make the routine non-routine. You can even take upon yourself to come up with some creativity in your sessions. Don't be embarrassed to talk to providers about "routine." You may be surprised at what many have to offer that is not "routine."
Although I respect the other opinions already offered, I have felt the same thing as you. That's one of the big reasons I've been putting my own energies lately into meeting women from SA. To be clear, my local offerings on TER are simply non existent, or not to my liking. But I still use TER whenever I travel to a richer environment. But for local play I use SA. The girls are more "real". The outcome is more unknown. The challenge and thus the rewards feel greater. And I can safely stay off BP which is a pit of snakes.
What is SA ?
In my home location BP is an invitation to Uncle Leo's place....and I do not mean Thanksgiving Dinner.
Talent is very limited on trusted verification sites for a reason up here.