For me, it's mostly our differences. Such as her curves, her higher voice frequency when she talks, sings, or reads aloud, her hair, the way she dresses, and just her different perspective on life and things that us guys don't sometimes see or even think about.
And then, if there is also commonality--that's a great match.
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definitely play with the attractive girls, but the intelligent women you meet are the keepers!
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attitude and intelligence rate high with me.
open mindedness and open spiritedness...
I have found that Mature over 60 men definately appreciate the small details of a woman. They either request me to wear clothing of their time or buy me items that fit me to their liking. I feel worshiped and I enjoy the look on their face as they admire my youthful body.
I met a PYT earlier this year and it started out as usual. But we soon discovered a shared interest in an obscure branch of learning that led to a really deep intellectual connection, which in turn led to an even deeper emotional connection. Now we meet for regular "book club" meetings and the sex is extraordinary
Book club? The Kama Sutra, "The Joy of Sex, 1 & 2" Required reading? 8o)
some of us, if not most of us, are not just animals trying to perpetuate our species (although one gal years ago said to me "let's just go back to the hotel and fck like rabbits". The emotional side of the brain, especially at this age, is also important.
A girl I've been seeing regularly for a long time is college educated and intelligent beyond her years. However, her degree and mine couldn't be more opposite. But that leads to spirited and interesting conversations; and we actually learn and enjoy much from each other. That didn't surprise me a bit, but it did her. Live and learn. In fact, she is planning to teach me something new next week.
Is there any other????
I like her to be willing to perform superb BBBJs to completion without fussing.
Then, on the social level, I'd like her to enjoy being wined and dined on a regular basis.
(Of course she's trim and pretty. 
The natural scent of men drives me wild. I love the body hair on his tummy and the hardness of his legs. I love the way I feel protected when he puts his arm around me. I love being treated as something fragile until the moment passion breaks the spell and we can be beasts for a while.
It took me totally by surprise, and I had no idea what she was talking about, or if she was just making it up for some reason. But, I've never forgotten it.
The rest of your post is nicely said as well. It's totally natural for men to want protect, be gentle, and make a woman feel safe, comfortable, and happy.