I love it both ways! I've topped more professionally, and bottomed more personally but I LOVE BDSM! Only every so often can I really getting the "tough love" I so desire because, well, bruises aren't every hobbyists cup of tea, so I try to stay relatively unmarked. But Mmmmm, I do love giving myself over to a strong top. Yum.
On the other hand, there some people who are just BEGGING to be slapped! I wish I had access to a full dungeon so I could really go to town on some of my submissives!I love nothing more than having a guy lightly bound and arching for my next touch...so I have MANY stories to share.
How about you?
Ladies too!
Talk to me, baby...
xoClair
No,experience or scared to share?
Hummmm
having no choice but to submit to my every need. I have visited a few ladies that never said anything about being a submissive, but jumped to attention every time I asked for something. It was so erotic, almost an epiphany, when it came to me. Then I gave her what she needed, but could not ask me for. No amount of foreplay could have brought me to that point. All I remember is how hard I came. I returned as often as I could.
....I was an experienced player in the BDSM scene for many years...as a Dom, when a few years ago an intriguing woman challenged me to allow her to bind me and give her complete control of a few hours together. WOW is all I can say! The sensations that she created were off the scale in intensity. Now I find I crave that level of play from time to time, not as an "everyday" thing, but with a skilled and experienced partner I can trust, as a guy who is a take charge guy IRL, giving up my power completely can be an intense sensual experience. Am I submissive by nature? No, but that is precisely what makes the decision to give up power over my time, body and mind so exhilarating.
I have a regular provider who allows me to act out many erotic fantasies with her, my favorite is her exotic lap dancing. Each time with her is a new fantasy and she is submissive and aggressive at the same time.
Choosing a favorite submission experience is a tough one!
I'm actively involved as a submissive in an ongoing power exchange relationship so I have a lot of experiences to choose from...
When talking about sensual experiences what comes to mind is the first time I realized I had a slight foot and tickle fetish...
My Dom bound my hands to the bed with hemp rope, He took his time using gentle touch, the feel of His breath on my skin, and gentle nibbles on my ears and sensitive areas to work me up into a state of hypersensitivity then slowly worked His way down to my legs and feet... Kissing, nibbling and tickling...
I won't go into all of the intimate details, but the whole experience was pretty intense. and left me giggling, breathless and twitching.
On a side not Wartenberg wheels are fun too ;
I love it both ways! I've topped more professionally, and bottomed more personally but I LOVE BDSM! Only every so often can I really getting the "tough love" I so desire because, well, bruises aren't every hobbyists cup of tea, so I try to stay relatively unmarked. But Mmmmm, I do love giving myself over to a strong top. Yum.
On the other hand, there some people who are just BEGGING to be slapped! I wish I had access to a full dungeon so I could really go to town on some of my submissives!
Oh I do so love getting good bruises... It's been a while, and yeah, I've always been nervous about how things would go if a sported a very bruised bottom to an appointment...
It happened to me. I received some serious bruising and let my clients know ahead of time. Most of them were pretty turned on! 
Ya a good bitch slap comes in handy
I'm not into corporal, very sensual but all about being in control. I have a personal partner we switch it up moment to moment - if someone was watching, I'm sure they be very amused.
I'll be in control for a while, then he will get this look in his eye and just grab me and take the power. We both love it. I'm always thinking up new things to do, surprising him. He rolls with it very well.
So much fun to play.
On the other hand, there some people who are just BEGGING to be slapped! I wish I had access to a full dungeon so I could really go to town on some of my submissives!
Four point tying a willing man to my bed gets me wet and HOT!
But it's all about communication and trust.
Communication before, during and many times aftercare!
Cum and try it. You might LOVE it!
SassyRed
I'll be attending a pro-domme training in SF this Winter. Look out folks, it's about to get serious in here! :P