... someone I know very well and trust completely. And someone who would welcome a threesome. I know a couple of providers who fit that description. Alas, this will never happen as my SO would never in a million years request or want a threesome. But it's a wonderful thought!
Men: If your SO wanted a threesome, would you prefer using a provider (maybe someone you have seen once or twice), your ATF provider, a provider (who you haven't seen yet), a mutual friend, or just pick up someone? If you decided on a provider you didn't know, would you use your references and handle or go in as a newbie? There could be benefits and risks in all of these.
Providers: If you and your SO wanted to do the same, would you pick a provider (you know), a provider (you don't know), a friend, or just pick up someone? Would you use your provider name to contact a provider who you haven't ever met or go in as a newbie?
Either: Would you prefer out of state providers instead of keeping it at home?
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... someone I know very well and trust completely. And someone who would welcome a threesome. I know a couple of providers who fit that description. Alas, this will never happen as my SO would never in a million years request or want a threesome. But it's a wonderful thought!
I was just thinking about the same thing.
A few years ago (before I started hobbying, I was a lurker at the time) my SO and I were in Vegas. We had been drinking for a better part of the afternoon. We were walking down the strip and I was grabbing all of the cards I could. I told the SO that I was going to call one for her to play with. She said "Ok". From there we played a game of chicken that ended with us fucking, and no 3rd party joining us.
Now that I hobby (SO doesn't know), I have thought about bringing it up again, but doing it the right way. I would need to go "Newbie" style, and not use my hobbying persona, or work with a provider I know to help setup a date with another provider for us (keeping the back-end details away from my SO.)
I love the idea (picking a provider) i have thought about it before. I'm very VERY bi sexual and have been most of my life, it would be just her and i as i have no bf at the time, but if i did id absolutely choose a provider vs a friend or the hot blonde sitting at the bar.
I would pick a provider i do not know personally. And would use my provider name to contact her. I think that would count for screening 
Since I am poly to begin with, I'd probably just engage in a threesome at a party, or arrange for it with a friend with benefits. I LOVE group sex, and I do it whenever possible. So many combinations! Plus DP feels SO GOOD. Mmmm, I may need to make a few calls now.
ing bi and poly I think my first choice would be a friend, preferably one that is comfortable with what I do, and would be interested in joining me with a client from time to time. Sadly I'm not exactly outgoing when it comes to flirting with girls... and I don't have a lot of experience with them either... *blush*
Barring that preferably a provider I know, or one I thought was at least cute, and one I'd consider for a doubles date in the future.
I would likely use my provider name, but my SO is very comfortable and supportive of what I do, so it's not a significant risk for me in that regard. We have actually discussed the possibility before. I would much prefer local
Lots of options!
If it was a SO, I would go with a provider I either knew or didn't know, but that I picked and communicated well with. I'm not really bi, so she would need to do the heavy lifting on that end...if you get my drift.
If it was a client, it might be fun to go out and try and pick up a chick together.
Kinda like a WOman hunt. Make a full evening of it. Maybe even at a strip club.
Sounds like fun, any which way.
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