I hear men over 40 say over and over that they don't feel sexy because they're going grey or don't have "abs" or are bald (they seem to forget that baldness means more testosterone which means very good things in the bedroom), and it makes me sad because there are plenty of women who find all of that immensely appealing. Is every 20-something going to be into it? Maybe not. But some are. And there are lots of women in their 30s+ who just see you as a little older or a peer and totally hot.
Men are super lucky in that there is *no* stopwatch on sexiness for you. I've been with men in their 60s who rendered me speechless, both in looks and in prowess.
The difference in approach with younger girls likely has nothing to do with your age and everything to do with theirs. There are, of course, very young women who are exceptions to what I'm about to say. But, generally speaking, no matter how bright or savvy someone is, there's just no substitute for life experience when it comes to knowing how to make a man comfortable, how to have adult social skills, how to be seductive/be seduced, etc. Especially when the client is much older.
Age isn't just a number; it comes with a power dynamic and I think many younger girls feel an automatic deferral to older men and may just generally find it harder to connect with them.
The trade off, of course, is that no one has a body like a woman in her teens and 20s. I've read reviews of 19 year olds that critique her for her approach and all I can think is "You're fucking someone who couldn't even vote in the last election. I think she should get a pass on that for having an actual, literal teenage body."
lately in a few threads. Age of us Clients that is. I believe someone posted looking for a much younger Lady to meet with as one of these threads. I have been in The Hobby for about 20 years. I am now 52, have I crossed over to "Grandpa" status. When I enter the room, is it "damn another old fart" or some other thought.
I have noticed a little different of an approach some of the younger Ladies have when I meet with them, but I initially thought it was my imagination or just a YMMV thing.
Help me out Ladies.
Tony
But then again I enjoy company of a gentleman of all age groups
Greetings Tony; I'm 31 def not young 20's but I love that age group. I love classical rock era and making guys feel like their back in high school/college days again. I enjoy the company of older gentleman. Your 52 That is far from grandpa age. I always like to ask new friends music likes and make them a specialized playlist when I first see a new friend that way their music is playing and it kind of breaks the ice.
Im always excited to meet a new friend. Xox
it's a viscous circle . We all want yesterday back so enjoy today kid.
But age, chemistry and attraction all go hand in hand. While I do understand and appreciate that men have a fantasy in their head about a pretty YOUNG girl opening the door. The same may not be true for the young girl. I am not attracted to younger men and I don't find that we connect. Thus, I don't see gentlemen under 40 years old. My . 02
According to the recent thread on the GD board, you are not considered old. Apparently, old = 100 now (see link).
Tony, there are plenty of providers that love to see (and prefer) clients of your age. And of course there are also plenty of providers that may enjoy the patronage of younger clients. I'm a younger guy (31) and in my experience there are a good number of providers that will assume, based on just my age alone, that I am another immature asshat that just wants to pound them full force for an hour. That's not who I am and that's not the kind of session that I enjoy. I just try to be myself and hope the provider enjoys my company as much as I enjoy her company. I suggest you do the same and don't get hung up on the age thing.
I think all providers prefer clients that are clean, respectful, punctual, humorous, easy-going, and understanding regardless of age, looks, political affiliation, etc... Also, it should go without saying, but I'm sure every provider hopes a client is smart enough to put the right amount in the envelope.
Happy Hobbying!
I replied to your comment below and would not have guessed your age to be 31. Happy Hobbying to you as well.
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how old we are where we've been and the experiences we have had in our lives have made us who we are.
Its ridiculous to think that as a client there would be no issues Ever!
to some you are in their opinion too old just as to some of the older gals they only see over 40ish guys. So there it matters as well.
just as when they review an older lady...not all but some...even some the same age or older than the lady they will take points off for her age OR remark in the review it was a great session even though she's not 25...or something along those lines. Like the best age is Young. I say not so!
you have passed through the* everyones cup of tea* age group into the ...**NOT everyones cup of tea** age group.
chin up though there are so many guys and gals who love this age group.you have many choices still...
If a lady is uneasy and she's really young can you blame her?! Its her immaturity thats calling the shots her lack of LIFE experiences.
Maybe now is the time to start asking if they are ok seeing someone your age.
Most will be ok some not but wouldn't you wanna know either way.
life moves on even the young 23 yr old spinner in her high light days ...well, her too her days are numbered.
seize the day my friend!!!!
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I agree.....
It's not about the age but about the connection .
i enjoy the company of older men , however I don't think 52 or even 60 is " old" .
Men in their 50 's and older know what they want ; they know how to please a woman , they enjoy life .....
I am attracted to the mind of an older man ....
My opinion ......
Xoxox
Vanessa
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ally glad you dig older men. We have great fun together anD I. Am 77......and I understand there are clients at agencies in their 90's.
SugarL. My fav women are 35-40.usually
you have a beautiful mind and body Vanessa
As long as everything feels good .....it's all good
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That's bullshit! So much for the disclaimer on everyone's website
....as long as everyone's of legal age imo.
My oldest client so far is late 70's and one of my absolute atf clients is mid-60's
I've noticed many ladies prefer older men. Thank goodness. But what about his body? Many of us get bigger as we get older. How much does that affect the mood? And anonymous responses are welcome
If you are clean, respectful, kind and fun idgaf about the rest. I have friends that range from 130 lbs to 400 lbs. Neither size phases me. We are all beautiful in our own skin.