She is playing you for way more than a newb should be spending on a tryst.
Get your feet wet on a few 1 hour appointments first.
I am traveling to Atlanta for business and I have chosen a hot lady to spend the evening with for my first venture into this "hobby". The lady is encouraging me to commit to a multiple hour evening so we don't get rushed and she has mentioned getting dinner. I am more than interested in dinner and spending a longer amount of time with her, I just want to get my money's worth. May I have some suggestions from the "wise men" in the room? For three hours what is an appropriate rate for Atlanta? Does three hours cover dinner and the evening or just when we are one on one? Thanks for your help!!!
She is playing you for way more than a newb should be spending on a tryst.
Get your feet wet on a few 1 hour appointments first.
I really must agree with FR, if she is requesting a multi-hour up-front you should move on.
To answer your ending question, a three hour dinner date consists of dinner and playtime in the course of the three hours. So the dinner time is on the clock so to speak. E.g. If the dinner lasts 90 minutes then you have 90 minutes to play.
Dinner dates can be great. You can get more comfortable with each other, it's easy to relax and the anticipation of 'dessert' can be riveting. But on the other hand it might not be your best option first time out of the box as Freedomrider suggests. You might find it to be more uncomfortable especially if you can't find a common conversational vibe and it is obviously more expensive (3 hours rate plus the dinner tab itself).
While some of my best times ever in the hobby involved long dinner dates, as I look back I'm not sure that I would have enjoyed one on my very first encounter with a provider. An individual preference I suppose when all is said and done. Whatever you do make sure this lady is well reviewed with a solid history and reputation. If she is then you'll be sure to enjoy her company under either scenario.
Freedom and HeyN have given you good advice. It took me several years of 1 hr. appts. before I decided on trying multi-hour appointments. Cost is definately a consideration. Do your homework and select a well-reviewed lady for the "first".
then go ahead and schedule a multi hour session. HOWEVER from your post, it does not look like you have done adequate prep - you ask for appropriate rate for Atlanta... if you have done your homework, you would know already. Does three hours cover dinner and the evening? This should be posted on the provider site, or made clear in correspondence already....
Honestly have to say, go back to the drawing board and start over...
Actual time spent with a provider if a newbie or oldtimer is really moot point... when I first started out, can remember more than one session with ladies that were great and multi-hour. One on particular where the lady picked me up at the airport, drove me to my hotel, I check in, we had dinner and drinks, went for a swim and then into the boudoir... one helluva night.
So, choose wisely... am sure that you will get a response to this from a local lady... may help you further.
and the only time dinner was part of the festivities, was an overnighter with my ATF, the 5th time we got together....
Definitely good suggestions in the prior posts....
The key for every session is research, research, research....