Research providers that have the menu you want and you won't have to upgrade or pay more. Providers with a full menu usually don't have an odor issue either.
Thanks to the reviewer who just posted the review which raises a couple of questions, at least to me. It's never easy to say anything negative but it is necessary sometimes IMO.
First, does it ever work to give more money for upgraded service when it's not normally on the providers menu? My experience says rarely. I have been disappointed when supposedly upgrading to GFE, bbbj, kissing, or whatever, and only received a half hearted response. BBBJ is usually short and shallow, kissing is very tentative and passionless, daty(my last upgrade) was not really enjoyed. I know experiences will vary but this seems to hold true for the most part.
Second, are unpleasant female odors always avoidable? I'm sure they are usually as much of a surprise to the gal as to the guy. My most memorable experience with this was definitely a surprise and horror to the gal as she profusely apologized and was very embarrassed. I think this could have been more of a medical issue. I returned to see her a few times and am very sorry she is no longer around
Read the attached link and you might wonder instead how a woman manages to avoid vaginal odor. It makes sense that poor hygiene can lead to odor, but c'mon, excessively GOOD hygiene also leads to odor?? Apparently the ladies have to figure out how to practice "just good enough" hygiene if they want to stay fresh. Gives me a whole new appreciation for the sweet pussies I've explored.
The only upgrade I have paid for was taking a massage happy ending from hj to bj, and the service was enthusiastic and skillful on that occasion. I suppose it makes sense that a woman wouldn't charge extra for kissing if she enjoyed it. And some women worry about extra risk from BBBJ. A question back to you, were the upgrades you purchased something she offered you, or did you ask for the upgrade and she said 'okay, but only for extra cash'? If she offered the service, knowing she didn't enjoy it and couldn't be enthusiastic, that would be disappointing. If she acceded to your request and offer of extra cash, well, money is money. You could say that she offered you her best value for dollar proposition and you messed with it at your own peril.
On the flip side, I basically never tip. I figure at $$$+ per hour she's doing okay. But on a couple occasions when a service not on the menu suddenly came into play during a session, I found it very flattering and did add a tip to the envelope.
Good questions and a good point. The last time I offered more was when a supposed GFE session was much less but I was at risk of a worthless session. Mr. Johnson was not responding and DATY usually gets me going, it didn't help that time. On other occasions which there aren't a ton of, each situation has been different. Sometimes I offer more for more, and other times I hear "not for that price."
The only upgrade I have paid for was taking a massage happy ending from hj to bj, and the service was enthusiastic and skillful on that occasion. I suppose it makes sense that a woman wouldn't charge extra for kissing if she enjoyed it. And some women worry about extra risk from BBBJ. A question back to you, were the upgrades you purchased something she offered you, or did you ask for the upgrade and she said 'okay, but only for extra cash'? If she offered the service, knowing she didn't enjoy it and couldn't be enthusiastic, that would be disappointing. If she acceded to your request and offer of extra cash, well, money is money. You could say that she offered you her best value for dollar proposition and you messed with it at your own peril.
On the flip side, I basically never tip. I figure at $$$+ per hour she's doing okay. But on a couple occasions when a service not on the menu suddenly came into play during a session, I found it very flattering and did add a tip to the envelope.
Unless she typically works off an a la carte menu (even if it is an unadvertised one) I think knowing and being more comfortable with each other increases the chances of paying for an upgrade working out well.
Necessarily change or waiver based on "menu items" however I do have an all inclusive addition ... It requires preparation and such.
As for the odor issue, yes it can be difficult to handle and I have to say it does go both ways. How do you approach it without hurt feelings ... I have and will but it's always a difficult moment.
Research providers that have the menu you want and you won't have to upgrade or pay more. Providers with a full menu usually don't have an odor issue either.
(and usually for me) the person was more important than the menu.
I found someone I really liked in personality and looks, met for coffee to be sure, and then hoped to persuade her to change her approach a little. Who knows how it might have worked out if the other issue hadn't arisen.
To answer your general question, this is one of the very few times I have paid extra for extra services.