who'll blacklist a hobbyist for a NCNS.
Would have posted a review but didn't actually see her. Guess this is just a rant. Set something up with her messaging here for last night. Had been sending messages for almost a week. Even messaged Thursday night with her saying everything sounds good. Called when I got to town and checked in at the time we agreed. No response. Sent her a text. 45 minutes later said she was running late. Ok, that's fine, I'll wait as I had an issue. This was at about 9. Two hours later nothing. Went to bed. Tried to get things scheduled early so I wouldn't have to scramble and a lot of good it does when the provider can't even be professional enough to say she's not coming. Sorry just had to complain to someone. At least one of the restaurants that was recommended on here was outstanding. There's always today.
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That's happened to me with a number of providers. Even some with outstanding reviews. At first it was kind of like what the hell, look what are they doing to me, but thinking it through with the larger of my two heads, I realize that it's not about me. They also have lives with the same kinda issues that everybody has, and sometimes life fucks up ones schedule. I feel that, like I feel about most people, they really don't mean to be rude, or mean...but, yes, sometimes just a quick call to say "sorry, cant make it" would be nice.
I have come to the conclusion that this is just part of the "Hobby" and when it happens, I just roll my eyes and move on..
Good attitude! Life is to short to sweat the stuff you can't control.
Happened to me a few weeks back by one of the most reviewed girls on the site. She has a major life outside of here and I highly doubt she is as available as her ads say she is but after finally getting ahold of her after many many many tries we finally set up a time for later on that night.
Then called little bit before to confirm and nothing. I mean I guess I can keep trying but it just seems like I am the only one that can't get ahold of her - oh well
who'll blacklist a hobbyist for a NCNS.
Fuck that, if no show and no contact, you should pay me for my time. Why the fuck is the provider's time more important than my time? Unless your dead, take a 10s to text or call to tell me you can't make it and I'll understand.
I have come to the conclusion that this is just part of the "Hobby" and when it happens, I just roll my eyes and move on...
Yes you just have to shrug it off. I came up with this way to think of it. JALP! But yes 1 phone call would take care of it.
Porter Creek and Chianti now. Both excellent. Something new tonight.
Ate at Doolittles tonight. Good but not great. Probably wouldn't go back. Much better ribeye at Chianti. No ribeye at Porter Creek but there steak was good. Scotch sampler was excellent. Could have drank that stuff all night. Side note, got to visit with a fabulous provider twice and will see another tomorrow morning. Probably worked out for the best. There's one I wanted to see that didn't work out but maybe next time.
Yes, things come up and sometimes last minute but it simply doesn't take that long to make a quick call or send a text to that effect or at least get in touch sometime later.