Female condoms are being offered more frequently. After a couple less-than-stellar attempts, my recent efforts have really made me appreciate them. But I have a few questions and I'd like to hear your comments.
First some background. As I get older, my erections become more precious. Once I have one, I don't want it to get bored waiting and go away. So I like to have condoms ready to hand before we start, which is easy enough. But FC present a further issue. When it's time to put a regular condom on, I am essentially getting a hand job in the process so no worries about getting bored. FC are more fiddly, though, can take a minute or two to install, and some women prefer to not be watched during the process. Result, I am left DIY, staring at the sheetrock for a while. Sheetrock has furthered the development of civilization, no doubt, but it ain't sexy.
So first question. How would you feel if I suggested you go ahead and install the FC just before I arrive. We could then chat for a few minutes, fool around for a few more, then move straight into sex without any delays to install the FC. Sounds great to me, but from a safety, hygiene, comfort standpoint, what do you think? Any reason you wouldn't want to wear it while dressed? How long a delay before we get down to business, with the condom installed, would you be comfortable with?
Second question. If we are using an FC and I pull out and finish somewhere else for round one, how would you feel about leaving it there while we catch our breath, clean up, chat, drink some beverage, start fooling around and eventually move into round two? Again, from a safety, hygiene, comfort standpoint.
And a corollary question. I've tried DATY with an FC in place, and so long as I'm not squicked out by the condom bouncing off my chin (I'm not) everything seems to work fine. Haven't tried FIV, yet. I wouldn't think it's a good idea for fingers to be inside the condom. Too much risk of a tear or puncture that goes unnoticed. But what about putting fingers in beside the FC for some reasonably sedate FIV during the fooling around stage?
We stay safe by sharing information. C'mon ladies, what are your thoughts!
... so I would definitely be comfortable doing that for a partner who requested.
I would never recommend using any type of condom for more than one round, due to possible spillage / breakage concerns. However, it would be fairly easy for any given lady to excuse herself to change condoms between rounds, I would think.
Fingers should theoretically be fine inside the condom as long as you're not being rough and you file down your fingernails until they are smooth before you meet your lady. FC or no FC, filing your fingernails smooth before trying to push them into someone's delicate areas is just good practice anyway.
It's great to have options for how we can play safe with each other! I commend you for exploring yours.
Best of luck with your FC adventures... ~ Zoey Zacquery
But please let's keep fingers and their nails away from the FC so they can do their job protecting us both! As far as re-using the same one for act II, as long as you're taking a breather, you're probably both taking a restroom break at which time a fresh FC can be put in place. I just can't find a good enough reason not to change it out. I'm glad to hear it's placement doesn't bother you for DATY- the FC's biggest "con" IMO. They are safe to insert up to 8 hours prior, and when inserted properly are perfectly comfortable. You are certainly right about watching the ceiling...though I prefer to use a toy to assist me with insertion, it just looks at least a little sexier but I, for one, cannot place one as efficiently as a regular condom and it takes a bit of time. Have fun!
But please let's keep fingers and their nails away from the FC so they can do their job protecting us both! As far as re-using the same one for act II, as long as you're taking a breather, you're probably both taking a restroom break at which time a fresh FC can be put in place. I just can't find a good enough reason not to change it out. I'm glad to hear it's placement doesn't bother you for DATY- the FC's biggest "con" IMO. They are safe to insert up to 8 hours prior, and when inserted properly are perfectly comfortable. You are certainly right about watching the ceiling...though I prefer to use a toy to assist me with insertion, it just looks at least a little sexier but I, for one, cannot place one as efficiently as a regular condom and it takes a bit of time. Have fun!
although the female condom is designed to be inserted into the female before intercourse, I had an experience the other day where a provider put the female condom on me just like a regular condom, then inserted me into her
it was quick and worked just fine - not the way it was intended, but no problem either
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