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I'm curious. How many of you guys when contacting or meeting a provider mention that you're interested in her because of a positive review on TER? If you don't mention it, why not? Providers do you get clients who mention they contacted you because of a positive review?
Almost all of me new contacts are done through P411. I rarely if ever mention TER when setting up a get together with a new lady unless she asks.
11 is the safest, fastest, most dicreet time saving way to approach us! Next is Whitelists on TER. Next is well reviewed TER references which can be time consuming but well worth it!
Reviews don't mean safety! Anyone can fake a review or two or three and perhaps some providers wont even notice the difference so there is no safety in writing reviews when making an appointment with a new provider is concerned.
Usually my first contact is via email. I will mention that I have reviewed her "profile" on TER suggesting that I have read her reviews. I'll also mention I have taken a look at her website if she has one or other informational site (i.e. Preferred 411) so that she knows I have taken some time to research info available about her.
When contacting someone new, my goal is to give her enough information to decide if she wants to see me. I also use P411, for the most part, so I can refer her to my profile and Okays. On the rare occasion I don't use P411, my contact is limited to offering whatever information I can that will convince her I am safe and worth seeing.
I never discuss specific acts or specific donations in email, and I would lump TER reviews that discuss specific acts and donations in the same basket. Those are things to talk about once we are face to face and have gotten comfortable.
You're right on Minn4ever!!! You are very appetizing the way you approach the hobby! Safe is sexy!! You are discreet and safe and a true gent and is shows from your first email.
Every gent who provides an easy path to showing he is safe with P411 Okays and/or TER whitelists and lastly, with well reviewed TER provider references, in that order, are the ones the gals know are safe and sexy to see!!!
Those who ask about rates and offerings are throwing up red flags and making us wonder if they're wanting a paper/electronic trail leading to a place downtown no one here wants to go!
I actually just received my first review ( yea me!). Since my review I have saw a couple clients that called and at up an appointment because of it.
It also made me more comfortable they mentioned it. hopefully more, my way!!
I really don't think that it matters, but who knows maybe she will feel more comfortable with me knowing that I have read some of her reviews and I know what to expect. And maybe she will try a little harder knowing that I will probably write a review too
I have pretty much always contacted someone new through P411 so she can review my okays and profile. I have never considered mentioning my reading of their TER reviews.
On a first appointment, my focus is getting the appointment and what is required to do that. Her reviews aren't part of that process although if I contact her through TER or she accepts Whitelists then she probably knows her reviews had something to do with it.
.... a way some gents romance a provider for future repeat meetings with a provider they like allot in a way that is almost like a serenade. Other times it is just a great personal exercise in creative and sexy writing for oneself. I like these uses of gents writing reviews. When writing reviews like some homework assignment just to get free VIP and not for one's own sharpening of sexy skills or creativity or serenading... and just rote, automaton regurgitation that is crass at times... well, that won't win providers over for future visits and it won't excite the guys either. Many reviews are quite creative, sincere, sexy and fun to read.... but a new client coming to see providers need not mention which review they really liked... as your personal experience is made best with arriving with your open most sexy attitude and hopefully she has hers on too and wheeeee, let the sexy begin and may it be forever memorable!!!!
But never think that reviews written are in any way shape or form a way to help a new provider "screen" you!!! You need P411 Ok's, TER whitelists, or TER well reviewed provider references and there begins the most sexy introduction romancing her with discretion and safety!!!! Now she feels taken care of right off the bat and the more smoothly the path to sexy is in the all clear the more sexy the whole entirety of the experience is, in total!
Reviews are for Gents to know who they should choose to see and Okays and Whitelists and well reviewed TER provider references are for the ladies and the gents to start off with a smooth introduction to each other when you finally found one with which you'd like to play!
p.s. can you tell this topic is a favorite topic of mine!!!
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You are a favorite of many!!
I have seen providers cover the spectrum from being very knowledgeable about the various source of information to knowing absolutely nothing about them. I don't see where mentioning it up front helps either of them accept a request to meet, but I will sometimes list my TER handle to providers with numbers of good reviews, and I have been given the impression that has a helped a bit.
I often bring up TER after the fun especially if I am considering writing a review. They aren't always wanted, or they sometimes have concerns over sharing some info in reviews.