60 and Over
Well, I'm older but I don't know how much wiser
No worries; if you mention it to her, I am sure she won't mind. 
for me it's mental: thinking of her reaction to my touch is enough to bring me to attention.
It may be partially a subconcious desire to be in charge, which is probably common in men.
No worries; if you mention it to her, I am sure she won't mind.
Oh, And I would not fix what is not broken. Just enjoy what you have. Seems healthy enough to me.
Thanks. Yes, I get morning wood, etc. No ed problems at all. Its just getting myself in the mood is tougherIt may be partially a subconcious desire to be in charge, which is probably common in men.
No worries; if you mention it to her, I am sure she won't mind.
Oh, And I would not fix what is not broken. Just enjoy what you have. Seems healthy enough to me.
for me it's mental: thinking of her reaction to my touch is enough to bring me to attention.
It may be partially a subconcious desire to be in charge, which is probably common in men.
No worries; if you mention it to her, I am sure she won't mind.
Oh, And I would not fix what is not broken. Just enjoy what you have. Seems healthy enough to me.
It may be partially a subconcious desire to be in charge, which is probably common in men.
No worries; if you mention it to her, I am sure she won't mind.
Oh, And I would not fix what is not broken. Just enjoy what you have. Seems healthy enough to me.
Thanks. Yes, I get morning wood, etc. No ed problems at all. Its just getting myself in the mood is tougher.
I'm an attentive lover, exactly like you. So for me to get hard, a lady has to appreciate my attentiveness. The majority of ladies out there are in it for the money. Out of those, the best ones can turn on the charm, and are great actresses. That usually doesn't work. However, there is a smaller contingent of ladies out there, who are in it, not only for the money, but because they really like sex. To find those ladies is always my quest, especially being an older gentleman. It's so easy to distinguish between the two types of ladies. Your rock hard cock is the first sign. One has to go through one's share of actresses, but every so often a gentleman finds that highly charged gem. And there you have your atf. If you're lucky, two or three. I know all the guys say that all the ladies fake it, but I'm here to tell you that there are a number of wild gems out there. Good luck in your quest!
Thank you for sharing your experiences. It sounds like we are a lot alike. Its gotten harder (no pun intended) for me of late to get in the right frame of mind. I've been going for massages which is a hit or miss as far as if enough happens to get me turned on. She could be naked sliding all over my back and it may not do it. But if I can touch her kitty...then I'm good to go. Its that whole need to please thing. I'd really like to get over that.
Gentleman,
I'm in my early 50's and when I get wood its rock hard. So no problems there. The problem I'm having is getting in the mental frame of mind to get wood. I've had some erotic body massages and when I was younger I'd have been standing at attention. These days, it doesn't do it for me. I'm wired as a pleaser and pleasing a woman is what gets me going. Whereas, her doing things to me....not so much.
I'm in my early 50's and when I get wood its rock hard. So no problems there. The problem I'm having is getting in the mental frame of mind to get wood. I've had some erotic body massages and when I was younger I'd have been standing at attention. These days, it doesn't do it for me. I'm wired as a pleaser and pleasing a woman is what gets me going. Whereas, her doing things to me....not so much.
Nice to hear I'm normal. Though some people might debate that! LOL!