but you should already have an idea of likes, dislikes and limitations reading reviews and profile page.
So I wouldn't ask about anal or toys, etc unless the reviews and the Profile page state otherwise. I've only asked sensitive questions over the phone when the conversation expands naturally. Mostly though, I have a better sense if I want to learn more after the first pop and there's a connection/chemistry. btw ... I hate email/text ... misunderstanding is a strong possibilityI just got denied of a future appointment and just want to know if this sounds offensive or if I may have done something differently to not offend , which , apparently , I have ....I will edit as to not OUT the person .
I asked this -
" I do have a few questions and I hope you're ok with them . Are toys part of the experience that you offer ? If so and I was to request one or two (for you) , would that be considered a fetish request ? I read that your fashion style is ******. Do you wear your hair up at all ? If I were to ask you start your outfit with a pair of sneakers , kind of a sporty look , is that interesting to you at all ? Thanks for any info . Be safe . Have a great new year !
I was asked if the toy was for me or her , I said her and the conversation ended . ( I just had some great fun with another fantastic provider with her pocket rocket and wanted to try some more )
I.m not sure but English may be her second language ?
Please elaborate ...... happy new year ............
If the "toy" implied sexual activity, then it is not surprising that she cut off contact, assuming (reading between the lines) that this would have been your first meeting with her.
In all things, patience is queen. My approach is to never ask for special things until after the first date.
Mes deux centimes....
She advertises 'special things ' and is not particularly hiding her interests on this board .
In all things, patience is queen. My approach is to never ask for special things until after the first date.
Mes deux centimes....
I agree!! You should not ask for anything special when arranging the first visit. You need to get to know the lady first.
Again , she advertises several other options . Asked if they were for me or her . Is it ok to discuss toys on me but not toys on her ? And , I did not ask for anything . I asked for clarification of what her 'fetish ' terms were . I did not mention anything that wasn't already advertised as a possibility on her site(s). If I wanted her to bring a red , white and blue strap on to shove up my ass at the stroke of midnight during the fireworks while waterboarding me , I think she'd be here .
Nor did she.
If either is not comfortable. Move on......
Sounds like she did. No worries and good news for you!
there are others!
but you should already have an idea of likes, dislikes and limitations reading reviews and profile page.
So I wouldn't ask about anal or toys, etc unless the reviews and the Profile page state otherwise.
I've only asked sensitive questions over the phone when the conversation expands naturally. Mostly though, I have a better sense if I want to learn more after the first pop and there's a connection/chemistry.
btw ... I hate email/text ... misunderstanding is a strong possibility
the way you phrased your questions sounded too much for a first visit. In other words, she may have thought..if she is not just how you imagine the encounter to be, you would be dissatisfied. And although your questions were minimal, I have not gone through with a date because the request list had gotten so long that I felt like I was auditioning for a play and would not live up to the expectations of the audience. AND I don't even mind a little role playing! LOL
It is best to read reviews (as was mentioned before) and go with an open mind for a new exploration.