Not trying to make myself out to be a sexual saint, but as someone who has never been a 100% orgasm during sex kind of guy, I'm perfectly willing to go until she has had her fun and then stop. I get more satisfaction on a job well done.

... neither of us had an orgasm.  Not very often, but it's happened.  

I've found it's best not to worry about it or obsess over it.  There's lots of other ways to be close, and have a good time enjoying each other's company.  It helps, though, that when the lady cums and I don't, she doesn't just jump up and get dressed, or roll over and go to sleep, but cuddles for awhile.  Ha!  Talk about a role-reversal, eh?

I love to make a woman cum... I like to get them off as much as possible before I get my turn, it just seems to make it so much more intense. But I also like to cum and many times. LOL
 My problem at home is sort of opposite to the norm. My wife is like the dude and I'm like the woman. She cums once and then off to sleep. Me, I want more. Sometimes I end up getting up with energy and doing something else. LOL

Let me start by saying that due to my circumstances (limited position capabilitys etc.) getting a woman off is like three quarters of the fun for me if I did not/could not do this well sex would be very boring for both parties; so I always try to have my game face on at all times (no pun intended I would say that my first really rewarding sexual experience was with a girl who was newly injured and did not know if she could… You know I was the first guy to help her with this post injury and thank the good Lord I succeeded I did not have an orgasm during the encoder but there was something about it that I absolutely loved it was a very unique opportunity that will probably never happen again but I'll never forget it that's for sure!

It's happened a few times.  I was either too tired or too drunk or just over-sexed.  I get to a certain point and say "well, this aint gonna happen".  Each time it has happened my partners seemed to be offended or insulted.  It wasn't them, it was me.

not infrequently either.

My biggest turn on in the hobby is when I feel the rush on wetness when from a provider experiencing an orgasm from my going down on her.  If that happens, everything else is a bonus.

There have been times when she climaxed more than I did and I was perfectly happy with it as I do enjoy seeing the woman enjoy herself as well but I think I always managed to finish at least one in those situations.

I sometimes hold back if I feel it's too early in the encounter to be "done".  Fairly often the result of holding back is that I can't finish later.  But if this helps her get there it's fine with me..the interaction is often more fun than a quick finish