I'm going to be in Chicago for a conference next week, arriving on the 7th and departing on the 10th.  I'm wondering if anyone can recommend a provider who enjoys being dominant but also PSE/GFE as well.  
 
On the kinky side, I'm not into anything that leaves marks, and really not into pain although I understand that a little discomfort can heighten sensations.  What I really enjoy is the mind-fuck aspect.  A sensual power exchange, if you will. I'm comfortable with and enjoy bondage, prostate play, rimming, T&D, and if it's done sensually strapon play as well.  All that said, I also want to enjoy the full service aspect of things as well. A provider who can DT me puts me in heaven (I have an as-yet unfulfilled fantasy of being bound and having a woman DT me from the front while another uses a strap from the rear), and although not required Greek would be icing on the cake.  
 
At any rate, my experience has been that most providers fall into one category or the other.  Providers who are into the BDSM scene tend to prefer not to provide full service.  Conversely, providers I would normally consider PSE or GFE tend to be less comfortable (or interested) in a fetish appointment in which they would be dominant over me.  I've had very little luck finding someone who falls into both camps, and I haven't figured out a good way to search for that on TER.  Any recommendations would be appreciate