So I can't say the name, and this isn't the first time this has happened lol. I have a big mouth toward people I pick up are a little off. I got a message from a person but can't post the PM.
I won't be able to post on the boards for a while, as a certain individual just PM'd me to let me know he has multiple handles and can write reviews on multiple devices, and can humiliate me, I think I read send people to see me, (my intuition is very sharp, and I'll know.) Also said he would be letting you all know based on his very eloquent communication skills, he will be contacting you to let you know not to see me. Also threatened to out me if I keep confronting him. Knew he was a sick fuck, but I also knew if I opened my mouth on here I would attract that when confronting any issues. I stayed pretty neutral for a while - but just wanted to let you guys know that a name assassination on Courtney may occur soon. So as of now, I will be taking extra precautions in screening. Just thought I'd fill you all in on what can happen on our side. It's not only some women who can be shady, but there are some guys doing this shit too.-- Modified on 9/30/2015 10:01:58 AM
Courtney, while we have never met I feel bad this is happening. Ruins it for the rest of us.
I suppose I come from a different time in which men treated women, all kinds of women, with respect. Guys you know, holding doors, paying the check, giving pleasure, and not being an dick.
On more than one occasion, (three to be exact) providers have chosen to share elements of their personal information with me. I could not even imagine betraying that trust....EVER.
Once again, I feel for you and I hope this will not jade you too much in the future
Some of the most gentle, sweet, and wonderful men I met through this industry. That's why it saddens me that one person (or a small few) can misrepresent.
Any guy who is seeing me and gotten through are amazing gentlemen and I really hope this wouldn't drive them away too. Yeah I'm a little toug h on the bad apples, and can usually pick them up within the first email. But the men who do get through, well, they've treated me like a lady, and are very give and take. So again I do hope I still get to see guys like that, but I'm anticipating my email will be blowing up with fake inquiries lol.
Just more work for me. I'm still going to be Courtney. Not changing anything, just will be requiring a 10 minute phone verification for all future dates for now.
-- Modified on 9/30/2015 10:10:26 AM
Courtney,
I have always required the 10 minute phone call. This has saved me the headaches. The bad reviews that I have received were the ones that refused to give me a phone call because of lame excuses. The last reviewer who gave me a bad review posted an iso on this very board and pushed all the limits with me. I will never understand if I am not what you are looking for and I show up at least give me $50.00 for my troubles, gas, parking, etc and we can part ways and no hard feelings. The gentlemen who cant be respectful and then do the things like you mentioned only hurt themselves.
It is a shame that there is people like this in this world. It makes it harder on all of us in this hobby
. . . I am sure he would last six seconds with me.
To whoever you are: no one likes a bully. It's just cowardly to fight someone electronically. Try doing it on your feet when someone's life is at stake.
Why not forward the PM to admin?
We met once a while ago. Had a wonderful time. I judge based on my own experience. Hopefully we can all tell when a jerk is trying to out an otherwise great person. Good luck. Don't loose too much sleep over this prick.
I'm sorry this happened to you, I truly am.
Your right, we meet amazing men - but the few that aren't, well, they sure aren't. You have always been kind to me, if you need anything please do not hesitate to reach out.
And to whomever is the jackass that is surely reading this, shame on you. Seriously. It's a message board.
I hope TER looks into this and bans all his usernames. It is the right thing to do, and I would think TER admin would not look the other way when slander of a very active provider on these boards happens. If they don't, perhaps the justifiably angry people who posted in this thread can think about the money they give TER every month for VIP.
Again, wishing you nothing but the best, Courtney.