but I actually do this with a lot of women I've been with before or after the main event. For me it is one way of returning the favor (besides getting her to 'O", of course!) or just simply being nice. In some instances, I've used it to segue into the second main event (you never know where my hands end up when she's having fun). As in many things in this hobby, being sensitive to how the woman feels and responds is key. If she's not into it or not enjoying what I'm doing I move on.
What I find fun sometimes is when I tell the provider I have this massage porn fantasy I want to act out and they get into it too!Providers - are you open to a client giving you a massage before the main event? Would that be considered too strange or raise concerns?
and if it is erotic then certainly can set the right mood. However here is something to think about. I LOVE massages given me, but if they person actually gives a really good one I get a bit tired and lazy feeling so while I would love it, it might make my performance a little more sedate and relaxed then fired up and bouuncy.... Just saying, but yes it is a nice and very uncommon touch
but I actually do this with a lot of women I've been with before or after the main event. For me it is one way of returning the favor (besides getting her to 'O", of course!) or just simply being nice. In some instances, I've used it to segue into the second main event (you never know where my hands end up when she's having fun). As in many things in this hobby, being sensitive to how the woman feels and responds is key. If she's not into it or not enjoying what I'm doing I move on.
What I find fun sometimes is when I tell the provider I have this massage porn fantasy I want to act out and they get into it too!
I do that all the time to girls
I don't think it's strange .
I think its fuckin awesome LO
Sage makes a good point. A relaxing massage can have the opposite effect. I would think a more sensual massage with light touching would help rev up the session.
would bring the whole set up for giving me a massage....mood music on his laptop, oil, hot rocks in a thermos to keep them warm, and chocolate covered strawberries. Saw him several times and this was his thing every time. His massage was wonderful. I almost felt guilty because he catered to me for at least half of our date and it felt like heaven. It was a great build up to the rest of our time together. Very handsome guy as well. Hmmm......reminiscing : )
I have had a few gents ask if it was ok for them to give me a massage.
I don't have a problem with it a few of the guys had went to massage school and it was very relaxing.
Not strange.
(*Sidenote I wrote a whole response and then instead of hitting post accidentally hit clear GRR)
So, almost all of my sessions are spent focusing on my guest, helping him to relax, and so on. Which, to me, is basically the job description, and is what I expect out of sessions. But, every once in a while, I come across someone who thoroughly enjoys helping me to relax, and although for a moment it takes me out of my element, they have been some of the best sessions that I have. In general when the guy wants to massage and relax me, it allows me to really get into it and makes the entire event so much more pleasurable. I feel that ever session should be catered to what my guest WANTS so if my guest wants to relax me, then that is what my guest will get. Of course, while getting relaxation itself, but it is always great when a gent truly enjoys relaxing and making me happy.
I've had a few gentleman here and there who have given me massages during our time together and I enjoy it. It's just another nice way to really connect during our session imo