You're putting us on, aren't you?
I mean, it just doesn't add up. In any case, I'd advise you to let a bit of time pass before you do anything too rash.One night late at night (it was almost midnight), I went to one of those AMPs in Flushing that offer everything for $120. Now normally, the girls are not that great and they are not into the encounters very much. It's usually the girl just lying down and spreading her legs while you do your thing. On this occasion, I got there and the girl that answered the door took me to a room. But I didn't like her (she was not small enough for me) and I knew there were two girls so I said, no thanks, I want to see the other girl. The other girl was not available because she was with someone else. So I decided to wait...for about 30 minutes or so. I'm sitting in the chair and the girl that I rejected is giving me mean looks, but I waited for the other girl.
I was happy I waited. She was very cute and petite, much more to my liking. She didn't speak much English, but she said a few words and translated for me on her phone. Then I kissed her and surprisingly we started kissing more intensely (DFK).
Then we had sex...she she gave me a CBJ and we had sex...she was very much into it with a lot of movement and intense kissing. After the session, she proceeds to give me her phone number. She also make a comment about wanting to marry me. And I said I would love to marry her.
So we start talking through text and made plans to go out on a date to dinner in Flushing one evening. She showed up and we had a great time together. We were also holding hands and walking together afterwards. She was leaning on my shoulder and really seemed to enjoy going out. During dinner, she even snapped a picture of me with her phone. Later, she walked me to the subway and we said goodnight. I kissed her quickly on the lips, moving away before it got any more intimate.
At the same time, I was talking to another girl from a GFE place in Manhattan, trying to flirt with her. This other girl says to me, "Did you go to Flushing tonight?"
I responded, "how did you know I went to Flushing?" not even thinking about it.
Then later, I was talking to the girl that I had just finished my date with. We were chatting on the Wechat App, and I'm telling her that I missed her a lot already. Suddenly, my date said she doesn't believe me. She said I was lying to her. She said that she was telling her good friend about me and showed her friend my picture, and her friend knew me (she happened to be the other girl I was chatting with). Very small world! So I'm talking to my new friend and I could no longer deny since I was caught red-handed. She said she was very disappointed, that she thought I was a good guy and she thought she could trust me. So I just apologized. What else could I do? Anyway, we sort of made up and I promised to be honest with her from now on. So, we were chatting late into the night and made plans to meet again the next day for a date in the city.
The next afternoon, I picked her up in Flushing and we took the subway to Manhattan. She's holding my hand and leaning on my shoulder most of the ride. We were walking hand in hand most of the afternoon, through Central Park. Then we sat down on a bench in the park and began kissing intimately, much more intimately than my encounter at the AMP. So, that was our first real date...
Now we are talking about marriage already. I know, it's insane. We've had an on again, off again few weeks since that date. Mostly just chatting. She tells me she's not doing the AMP work anymore and that now she's just doing massage. Of course, I don't know if I believe her. But she had been asking to come over to my apartment. Finally, I invited her over one night...and it was probably the most intimate night I've ever had with anyone. She wouldn't let me sleep at all the entire night. We kissed each other non-stop and made love about 4 or 5 times throughout the night. Everything was completely bare without any mention of a condom. And she was very wet, the entire time.
I didn't expect to meet a girl I'd go on a date with or consider a serious relationship at an AMP, but the past few weeks have been crazy. Anyone have a similar experience
You're putting us on, aren't you?
I mean, it just doesn't add up.
In any case, I'd advise you to let a bit of time pass before you do anything too rash.
I'm not not making this up. It's too crazy to make up something like this. She also isn't exactly sure what she wants to do. Sometimes she says she wants to spend her life with me, other times she says she wants to get to know be better first before committing. Last week, a couple days before she came to spend the night, I had invited her over but I changed my mind at the last minute and told her I couldn't see her any longer because I felt that I didn't want to get to close to her and be hurt by her if she was still working at the AMP. Later that night, she talked to me and convinced me that she is sincere and really wants to see me. So I ended up changing my mind and invited her to stay over at my place this past Saturday night.
I mean, it just doesn't add up.
In any case, I'd advise you to let a bit of time pass before you do anything too rash.
This is heavy duty relationship stuff, and you come from vastly different cultures and need a cell phone to translate each others' words.
Stand back for a moment and see if you can find something wrong with this picture.
What would be so horrible about just enjoying each other without the pressure of attaching strings and give it a few months at least to see if you still feel compatible after the chemically induced honeymoon is over
Good thoughts Fish. Not to accuse anyone but could she be needing a marriage to stay in the country? Caution caution on so many levels. Slow down my friend.
And get ready to sponsor and house her parents, grandparents, siblings, cousins... On the plus side, you'll get fed better than you ever have before!
but please don't fool yourself that she is in love with you so quickly. Most likely she thinks you are "nice" and is angling to stay in this country.
I date Asian women working in this country for an entirely different reason, I know that 99% eventually have to go home and that I won't have to be a dick to wriggle out of marriage.
True story, I have a woman working at an AMP in Dallas who wants to marry me too, unlike you I have ZERO intentions of doing so, but I am enjoying the ride, she fucks me like a woman trying to land a husband, I am sure there are many guys here who know what I mean.
BTW Asian women marrying Americans to stay in this country is hardly limited to hookers, just do yourself a favor, don't get too carried away and fall in love, the chances that she actually loves you in this short time are very slim. Yes it's possible and it has happened to me, but I would keep marriage off the table for a long time before even hinting at it being a possibility
I do have a little test you might use. Tell her you would love to marry her, but it might take a year or more before your last divorce is final. If she tries to rush you into marriage, she's only looking for a green card.
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I met a provider with whom everything seemed to mesh perfectly. Our time together was very special...I thought. It was as if we were lovers. We even exchanged the "L" word on multiple occasions and made plans to soon meet in her native country where we would spend many off the clock hours together as she does not "provide" there. I was completely smitten. Then one fateful day, I had an afternnon appointment with her that was to follow a cient meeting. I had never confirmed our appointments in advance; I would just schedule our rendezvous and arrive on time. She knew I genuinely cared about her and that I would never NCNS.
So, I finish my meeting, turn on my phone and begin heading her direction some 30 minutes before the appointed time. Texts come in from an hour before asking if we were still on. I responded afirmatively and that I was en-route. She then called saying "I cannot see you now." As I had not promptly replied to her text an hour before, she scheduled another appointment. I suspect it was a multi-hour appointment that would yield more money than the hour I had scheduled with her. I surmised this from another comment that I won't repeat here.
So...what does all of that mean? It means that one cannot really tell if the woman you're paying for intimacy really cares about you. My flame did exactly what she knew I wanted and what she knew would keep me returning with many American dollars. But, when a better deal came along she took it without hestitation or reservation and then made up some lame story about how I'd always previously confirmed in advance. (complete bovine excrement). This event (while seemingly trivial as I've explained it) had quite an impact on me. It was an eye opener and a lesson learned. [Of course, once my feelings were hurt and my pride tarnished I silently vowed never to see her again.]
The point...be very very careful! Give your new relationship LOTS of time to evaluate what this lady's true feelings and motives really are. She may view you as her ticket to a better life while biding her time until "a better deal" comes along. Many of these women are predatory and your feelings can blind you to what seems obvious to an objective observer. You might find that all of that "affection", all of that "love", and all of that "sincerity" is a lie.
just saying...
The next afternoon, I picked her up in Flushing and we took the subway to Manhattan. She's holding my hand and leaning on my shoulder most of the ride. We were walking hand in hand most of the afternoon, through Central Park. Then we sat down on a bench in the park and began kissing intimately, much more intimately than my encounter at the AMP. So, that was our first real date...
Now we are talking about marriage already. I know, it's insane. We've had an on again, off again few weeks since that date. Mostly just chatting. She tells me she's not doing the AMP work anymore and that now she's just doing massage. Of course, I don't know if I believe her. But she had been asking to come over to my apartment. Finally, I invited her over one night...and it was probably the most intimate night I've ever had with anyone. She wouldn't let me sleep at all the entire night. We kissed each other non-stop and made love about 4 or 5 times throughout the night. Everything was completely bare without any mention of a condom. And she was very wet, the entire time.
I didn't expect to meet a girl I'd go on a date with or consider a serious relationship at an AMP, but the past few weeks have been crazy. Anyone have a similar experience?