By an evolution of curiosity, I have pondered too many times how in the hell guys like jeopcon (the famed "jedi master"), lex, lqnr...and all of the ultraactive gentlemen get their stamina to not only devour so many women in the area with such frequency but also to be multiorgasmic on almost each and every visit!
For me, once and done. No desire for two, at all. Is this uncommon?? Is there a secret that I don't know about? (I am not that old!!)
Do you ever take a vacation from the women??
Thanks for your comments!!
which is not saying much.
I think if you read the reviews of a lot of the major contributors you will see that many enjoy one very good cup during a one hour visit with a lady.
Feel a little weird talking about other guys performances, so will just share my typical session (again typical, sometimes session can be very different). I enjoy taking things slow, get to know the lady a little and see if some type of positive connection can be made (had one of my best sessions when young lady and I found out we came from same junior high and shared many things in background). I love to help undress the ladies and hopefully have some nice dfk. At some point a little bbbj (or cbj) is great, but lately is not as big a deal as when younger. If the lady turns me on and seems clean might try daty, but if not will still try to think of something to fire her up. Then love to hit a few positions. Depending on my mood and ladies desires the fs can be slow and intimate, or pretty wild.
This is where I think you will notice many of the guys are the same. I spent a lot of my life not using protection, so now with protection it seems like I can go at it for the full hour and still not spill a cup. Some of this may have to do with age too as we reach or 40s, 50s or higher, and because we are doing it fairly often. So often I need to stop fs with 10 or 15 minutes left in a session, and then use another alternative to ring the bell, which may be a bj or hj (this week it was a bbbjcim, which was just great). After enjoying a full hour the one cup is very enjoyable.
As I mentioned the above may be typical, but fortunately ever session is a new experience. Have had sessions where either the lady was so hot and good (or I was super horny) where I spilled first cup quickly during initial bbbj and then rallied for second. Also have had many sessions where even with condom the combination of th ladies attitude, looks and performance had me finishing inside her. A variable that we often forget too is that the quality and tone of sessions has a lot to do with our mood that day. Sometimes I have picked a certain lady because I was exhausted and just needed a slow relaxing intimate experience, and knew that was their style. Have seen guys complain the lady was not aggresive enough or too agressive. Well, often the ladies style is evident in their reviews and it is the guys fault for picking someone that was a bad match for their desires that day.
Finally, you mentioned taking a vacation. I have taken mini vacations, typically a few weeks, often after a few mediocre sessions. Then I will have a great session and go a little crazy with sessions the next few weeks. After sharing messages with a few friends the past months it seems they share a typical pattern.
Sorry for the long reply. Thought I would throw my thoughts out there and see what other guys think.
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Interesting post, JC. I have to agree that I'm typically a one-cup guy. Occasionally, if I come early, by say BJ, I may recover before leaving for FS, but mostly it's one and only!
Assuming I really like the lady (and quite honestly, that's not always the case), I really enjoy cuddling and talking afterwards, and/or more DATY, FK, or whatever else she likes.
As for actually poping, sometime BJ's do it, other times they don't, no matter how good it feels! It rarely happens during FS--it seems I could go on forever (I'm not bragging), even when I want to pop. I usually run out of energy first!
Same here,typically a one-cup guy now. When I was in better shape I normally could go a lot longer. Anyway now after 25 or 30 minutes I am sucking wind and look forward to either HJ/BJ.
And not to imply others are abnormal - but rare.
I have only experienced the multi a couple of times and none within a one hour session.
However, I am more the long distance runner. I enjoy the act more then the conclusion. So much that sometimes this becomes a problem, I held off too long and left without release - my fault, not theirs.
Someday I might book for 24hrs or a weekend, just to see how many times I can find release - but that's only when and if I hit the lottery.
Let's face it, Nature makes things perfect.
The basic function of a man is to spread his seed and procriate, so Nature gives him capability to recharge and try a second and maybe a third time to make sure his seed is well spreaded.
In my experience, guys who says "oh I can only go once" just have a problem with being comfortable in cumming just one time.
Usually, a married guy ends up being "one cup" because his wife doesn't care to brew a second from him. Once their done, she just satisfied and show no interest in spending more time having sex.
After months and years of this, a guy get conditioned to just do once...is ALL in your mind, not in your body.
The ethnic background of a guy is also a big part of his ability of cumming more than once...not to mention his size too.
Black guys, in general, just come once no matter how old or what kind of shape they are. Also, blacks have a helluva of a hard time cumming orally.
I have many black clients who can only cum orally with me, because I'm capable of making that happen.
I have a client of mine, who is white and 54 years old now...when I met him, 2 years ago, he was just "one cup" kind of guy. After seeing him every month since, he's now can cum 4 to 6 times in a period of 2 hours.
Is all about YOUR mind over your body...the way you train yourself to be.
When I had a GF, we usually went on for hours. I was familar with her body and she knew what I like. Since she was little younger than I was, there was no such thing as one cup. She wanted to fuck/suck until she pass out with multiple "o"(no lie).
Since I do this over my lunch hour now, I know it's only cup period. I know it would take forever for the second cup, so I don't try.
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I agree with you Betty. About three months ago, I had a provider who double popped me inside an hour, for the FIRST TIME in about a DECADE. She totally blew my MIND, as well as my LOADS. Even after that, the problem persisted that I could only pop by HJ.
Then a mere three days ago, a new (to me) provider somehow managed to get ME to CIM (which she greedily slurped up and swallowed). Offering greek as well (which I have not experienced yet), that makes her GFE++++ ALL THE WAY! Oh BABY!!! That turned the clock back about FIFTEEN YEARS! Now I know just about ANYTHING is possible.
I agree that most guys could easily have multiple pops in an hour. For instance, been with a few ladies that I know could have served multiple cups with combination of bj's and hj's, but that is not really what I am looking for in a visit.
I want something different from a session, I want to be with someone so intoxicating I want to explore every inch of their body to see what makes them tick. I want to take my time and try to make the time enjoyable for them, so that when I come back we pick up from there and the next sesson is even better. I am not really thinking about the number of cups. One time recently when I did have multiple cups the session was not very good, I figured I might as well go for multiple cups since our time together had little else going for it.
All I can contribute is that I'm 27 and can always go for round two. It's rare that it happens but when it does I'm very thankful.
Don't know why the rest of you got so bent out of shape, if you'll forgive the pun.
Just take your vitamins before the session and you'll be ready to go! 
I am a one cup kind of guy....But give me a couple of hrs and I'm good to go again. I have never had two cups in one hr or even two hrs. I've tried but no dice. I think its just the way I'm built. Everyone is different and different is good.
I prefer the 1 pop/hour pace. There is something about holding off as long as possible - then BOOM! Good stuff.
From occasionally holding off so long that I end up not being able to pop, going twice in a two hour session. I think I could do 2 in an hour if the first one was early.
But there are so many variables - how you feel that day-worn out, stressed, nervous, happy, pumped up. Or how recently you popped - I like to skip it for a week or so before a session as I think it makes me more sensitive.
I believe working out helps you physically, too. Build stamina, etc.