If someone NCNS you then shouldn't people be alerted to their unprofessionalism? You're not allowed to write a review, but there should be some method of knowing who is reliable and who isn't.
A local girl just stood me up, we had a appointment set up for tonight and ncns on her part. Now should I tell everybody here about her or just leave it alone. I do hate it when a girls does this to me. Where is the common courtesy in this business now days.
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I'm not condoning her behavior, but sometimes you have to deal with the crap and keep on moving. For all you know, it was a huge blessing to never have met someone who is clearly unprofessional.
In this "world" I have found that it's best to not have bad blood with anyone. Some people are crazy, and it's just not worth it to find out. I've met not-so-great men, and men have told me about not-so-great women. It's inevitable.
Sorry to hear that your fun fell through, but there will be better times ahead. I'd let it go, and find someone else 
I already have, it just makes so mad. I just had to vent it out to somebody
But it would be worse for the woman in this hobby if the shoe were on the other foot, and you had stood her up. She is losing a lot of money then, and if from elsewhere probably airfare as well.
If someone NCNS you then shouldn't people be alerted to their unprofessionalism? You're not allowed to write a review, but there should be some method of knowing who is reliable and who isn't.
I agree until there is a place for that, I am going to wait to see if I hear back from her. I sent her a email on he rP411 account to find out why. Maybe she has a good reason why she didn't brother to let me know.
Would be interesting to see what she says if and when you do find out. Did you submit references? If so, maybe one or more didn't check out to her satisfaction. Just a thought.
Then I would try calling her again. If it happens a second or third time then I would look for another provider to play with.
You mean, just as in baseball, three strikes you're out?
How hard it to just let someone know 24 hours before? Some hookers CHARGE when we cancel.
Are they going to pay for our time, hotel or gas? Hell no. Out that person. You have to make it known so others don't get fucked too.
Most no doubt do want a 24 hour minimum notice if you had to cancel. On the rare occasions where I have used one I have never had it happen, but it could have last year but it wouldn't have been due to it being one of the stormiest summer nights in a long time. She was an hour late but she made it. We did keep in touch via cell phone. You might try in the future having a backup just in case, just as I did. You might try an incall the next time so you wouldn't have had to pay for the hotel. Or, if you prefer outcall, you might consider booking your room through the Priceline website, where you can name your own price to receive deep discounts. The one I use had a 57 percent discount off the normal rate.
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unfortunately, you can't review a NCNS - this is our only means to notify everyone. If they are not reliable, then I prefer not to see her to begin with. I have outted people on here and as it turns out, she NCNS to other people as well.
you are just a nobody..
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A few months ago there was a visiting lady who was in a bad car accident...her phone was destroyed and she was in the hospital for several days.
I'd wait until you have more information...
That is what you should do.
Three things we can be certain of:
1) Death
2) Taxes
3) Hoze being hoze.
Make peace with it!
I called and made an appointment yesterday with someone, texted two hours before the appointment saying that it will take me about an hour to drive there, she replied and told me where to go. I texted her when I arrived at the location, she asked to give her 10 minutes, and then no more replies for an hour and 45 minutes.
Nearly 4 hours of my day wasted. She's got good reviews and really should not.
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u got hozed..
Nearly 4 hours of my day wasted. She's got good reviews and really should not.
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It seemed so blatant that I can't even come up with an explanation. Is that the way this provider has fun? Did she forget to screen me and for whatever reason decide against it at that last moment? I should have good standing so I don't understand that.
My only other thought was she passed out or something. Maybe we can make a game out of guessing what could have happened and I will text her to look at the discussion board.
And since she ignores my (nice) texts for any explanation, I'd suggest you avoid Kimmy of Chicago 216165. She totally wasted 3 hours and 38 minutes of my day (and 80 miles driving).
https://www.preferred411.com/P106525
Jen of Chicago
I did send her a email last night asking her why but got nothing back from her. I am sure she has her reason on why she would not meet with me. But it is rude not to let a person know that you will not see them for what ever reason she may have.
I do hope that if you decide to meet with her you will have better luck with her then me
This is the one I met with two different times and we had a great time on both occasions and would like to keep her as a regular during the once in nine months or so I can afford to do this. As mentioned in a previous post, I had backups just in case. When did you contact her? In our meeting she did tell me that she was getting ready to leave on vacation. I have a hard time believing this one, but maybe one of your references didn't check out. If I were you I would call her at her new phone number which should be listed on the review site. My meeting with her was just a week ago this evening and was wonderful.